Katyj you are doing your very best for your mum even though it doesn’t ever feel like it to you as still your mum complains.
When MIL was that age and no longer went out DH arranged for Carers to help with personal care, medication and getting ready for bed, a weekly hairdresser, ready meals deliveries regularly, a foot-care lady, and best of all a cleaner twice a week.
He visited several times a week too. We were both working.
The cleaning lady was a gem and she became a friend. DH said to her that if DM wants to talk, sit and talk with her, turn the radio or TV on, or run an errand for her. Her role as it were, was not to be constantly cleaning as the flat did not need it.
The cleaner was young and had a school age daughter and in the school holidays she took her to visit MIL. They sat and crayoned together !
MIL would have said she had a lonely life but as others have said there is only so much you can do. Take care Katyj ?
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