Cornishgreenhousethank goodness for people like your daughter who are there when we need them. Every word you have written is correct. I know this because I also have a daughter who is a doctor, who works three jobs, one as a full time GP, another where she does weekly shifts at the ED in the hospital, often returning home late at night, and a third for a private clinic seeing menopausal women who are suffering and need medical help. This is done online in her own time. I see it from both sides because I also have a son who is a barrister and another son who is a financial director. My sons both earn far more money than my daughter. It is a fact. They don’t work harder or have more skills, they just work privately. The barrister is of course self employed as are all barristers. The other son works for a company, and he moved for more responsibility and money as and when he felt it appropriate. All three went to university. One for three years, another for four years, and my daughter, the doctor, for six years. All three went on to do further study and exams, all of which had to be paid for. The difference, the barrister was given a grant to cover his Bar School fees, and a generous allowance to cover his pupillage. The other son was given days off as study leave and his exams were paid for by his company. My daughter had to study in her own time, and had to pay to sit all her exams, some cost £2000 for an exam. This is the difference. And we should all know the difference, because we seem not to.