NotSpaghetti Wed 14-Oct-20 12:36:43
Why are so many of you so hostile?
Do the posts come across as hostile? To me some are forthright, blunt even and maybe the tone used could have conveyed some sympathy, but I found all the responses valid.
How I would have loved for such an understanding fifty years ago. Back then there was no choice, and if you went against the tide then you were fair game for insults.
As for the original posters dilemma, I'm afraid that there is no compromise. My sister-in-law gave in to pressure and had just the one baby. She admitted that she didn't really take to motherhood, but that compromise, if you can call it that, really bit her on the bum. Her daughter produced nine children of her own. Oh dear, poor nanna.