I had years pierced when I was 15 and my mum called me tart for doing it, I then had them done again (2 holes) at 17. I wore 2 small matching colour coordinated studs in each ear, it looked nice and tasteful, and " no" I wasn't a tart, I was very reserved actually. My mother wasn't that nice to me. I was a hairdresser and used to colour my hair in light colours, the names she called me for that are unthinkable. My boss told me I suited the lighter colours better when I finally gave in to my mums bullying and returned to my natural colour, in fact, quite a few people were quite horrified that I'd gone back to my dark colour again. They said it didn't suit me. There's no wonder I have an inferiority complex now is there.... Plus other mental health problems due to my upbringing.