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Synonyms for ‘Fat’ that aren’t Cringeworthy…?

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FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 09:55:39

Hello! smile
I am fat.

But I do not like saying ‘I am fat’.

But neither do I like ‘curvaceous’ (probably the best of a bad bunch); ‘cuddly’ (bleugh); ‘curvalicious’ (give me strength); or the word de joure ‘thick’ (confused)

Can you think of any acceptable, non-cringe words for not being slender? Because I can’t

Thank you!

Happysexagenarian Fri 13-May-22 12:55:22

My grandfather once described a 'large' lady relative as 'a woman of substance'.

And while shopping with my grandmother one day she drew my attention to a lady with a very large posterior striding along on the other side of the road and remarked with a chuckle "Hey up head, my arse is coming!"

I too am very overweight (steroids problem) but I don't mind being described as fat, it's what I am. I'm too old now to be easily offended. But if my Mum was still around I'm sure she'd find a way!

sharonarnott Fri 13-May-22 12:56:57

As far as I am concerned I am fat and it's that simple. I don't look for alternatives to sugar coat it. I just say it how it is when talking about myself, fat or seriously overweight are the only words I use. I hate the word plump it makes me want to scream, sounds like the way you'd describe a chicken with plenty of breast grin

Gwenisgreat1 Fri 13-May-22 13:02:22

I am well rounded!! How does that do?

PamQS Fri 13-May-22 13:07:10

I decided to own my fatness, and started saying I’m fat if I need to describe myself. I found it interesting that some people react with distress, or even shock, if you describe yourself as fat!

Other than ‘fat’, I think the word ‘stout’ was used a few generations ago to describe someone of generous proportions. There’s also ‘well-covered’.

Of course, some cultures would describe us as beautiful!

tattygran14 Fri 13-May-22 13:10:38

A bit off point, as usual, but in America clothes for overweight youths are described as 'husky'. Somehow, I find that very funny.?

Nanny2020 Fri 13-May-22 13:11:58

How about a woman of size , or a woman with generous proportions !

Callistemon21 Fri 13-May-22 13:15:06

Perhaps I'll stick with traditionally built like Precious Ramotswe

Didolizzy Fri 13-May-22 13:15:49

My husband says I’m ‘substantial’ ! ?

Durga Fri 13-May-22 13:16:32

Polly73. I love “The art teacher look”

Durga Fri 13-May-22 13:18:03

How about “ of classical proportions”?

Aepgirl Fri 13-May-22 13:19:53

Plump is a lovely word, as is chubby.

Secretsquirrel1 Fri 13-May-22 13:32:56

Non of the words for fat are very nice. I’ve only recently thought about it as I used to be slim and now I’m not!
Tubby, plump, are not great. They used to say stout but that’s always made me cringe !

SueD Fri 13-May-22 13:35:36

Generous proportions

Bignanny2 Fri 13-May-22 13:39:18

I’m quite happy to say I’m fat, because I am! It’s because I eat too much and don’t (well can’t) exercise enough. I’m happier to be called fat than chubby or some of the other words. Over weight is okay but makes me think of someone who is about 1 or 2 stone over weight . As you can see from my user name - my grandchildren call me Bignanny, this was initiated by my eldest granddaughter when she was only 3 and she was distinguishing me from her other nanny. That was obviously her observation. The name has been adopted by each of the grandchildren as they have come along.

Glenco Fri 13-May-22 13:47:00

How about "well-rounded lady?"

Lesleyroch Fri 13-May-22 13:49:33

I too have put on weight and my little grandson on his last visit exclaimed “Nanny you just keep growing”???

Glenco Fri 13-May-22 13:50:30

Oh, sorry Gwenisgreat. I didn't see you had already made that suggestion. I think it sounds elegant.

Codyodo Fri 13-May-22 13:50:43

Voluptuous ?

Musicgirl Fri 13-May-22 13:50:44

Germanshepherdsmum

Voluptuous?

I like this one. I quite like pleasantly plump and don’t mind well-built, chubby or sturdy. If you are tall like Kirstie Allsopp as well as on the broad side, is there anything wrong with large? After all. It describes height as well as breadth.

Mine Fri 13-May-22 13:52:47

My GC say that my granny is "Cuddly"....Makes me smile...

SJV07 Fri 13-May-22 13:53:39

'Unslim' /non-slim???

Llamedos13 Fri 13-May-22 13:55:29

In a tv interview, a reporter was talking to a chap whose house had gone on fire, he said he had to pull his wife out of a window to escape the flames.”She’s a heavy girl”, he said over and over! I often wonder if she has forgiven him for telling the entire country his wife is a heavy girl,

grandtanteJE65 Fri 13-May-22 13:55:38

As long as a person is describing herself the choice is surely hers.

Stout, well-built, generously proportioned, ample, plump, or as Mma Ramotswe of The Ladies' No. 1 Detective Agency says of herself "a traditionally built lady".

sandelf Fri 13-May-22 14:03:05

Traditionally built! (Alexander McCall-Smith - Number 1 Ladies Detective Agency.

Polremy Fri 13-May-22 14:03:17

Not sure if it’s already been suggested.
Didn’t have the patience to go through all nine pages.
But…..what about”well covered”?