Do you expect me to support something without looking into it simply because it is women proposing it?
No. But it's not me who claims that it is unfeminist to speak against a woman, is it? I even started a thread back in the day to discuss the notion of feminism meaning blindly supporting people just because they are women. I think each case should be taken on merit, and in the case of the pool players, it makes perfect sense to me that they are speaking the truth and that they are being disadvantaged.
I don't automatically support women now because recent events and people have shown me how many women are not actually in favour of equality. I suppose my distrust began with Thatcher and has been reinforced recently by politicians and Posie Parker. I now carefully look at what is being proposed and who is proposing it.
I agree that Thatcher wasn't remotely feminist, and certainly didn't support her because she was a woman. I never supported her at all because I disagreed with her policies. I don't agree with everything PP says either, but I do think she speaks sense on trans issues. As I keep saying, to me, thinking thing (A) doesn't necessarily mean that I think thing (B).
Sadly some women really do not support equality. It doesn't make me less of a feminist.
In itself, no. Of course what 'some women' do doesn't reflect on any of us as individuals, but when someone never supports women against men or male-bodied people it shows. I keep asking whether you can give an example of when you have supported women in these circumstances and you just quote intersectional feminism as though that is a get-out.
I'd give the women I disagree with every support if they showed that there was inequality in the way they were being treated, but I need to know there is real inequality first. If the subject is debatable then I expect it to be debated not automatically agreed with.
So do I, but the difference is that I don't decide whether there is real inequality by assuming that women are exaggerating or lying - to me that is not feminism. I assume that there is truth in what they say, listen when people point out anomalies and then decide. I don't agree with all feminists on all things, just as I don't agree with all socialists or all of the so-called 'gender critical' on everything. I think for myself.
In the case of sports, I think that as so many women in so many sporting fields have said that competing against transwomen puts them at a disadvantage, then they should be listened to. Even if they are wrong (which I don't think they are, as logic and biology show otherwise) their word should be taken seriously and they shouldn't be over-ruled by committees or anyone else. If transwomen want to compete 'as women' they should form a transwomen team/league as appropriate, and do so against others of their body type and biological make-up.