Did you or didn't you? Sex before marriage!

It isn't compulsory to answer all the OPs - just walk on by!

Not aimed at you sago.

Be warned - there’s one person here who is sending inappropriate PMs

I hope you’ve reported them?

Almost as if this kind of thing encourages trolls.

Sorry crazyh, that comment didnt appear very sympathetic, I didnt mean it that way.

why would you ever want to know a strangers most intimate moments
Because they’re saddos with car crash relationships.

GSM - yes, though I guess GNHQ is probably on a break.

Galaxy - no need to apologise. I did not take offence at all

crazyH

Be warned - there’s one person here who is sending inappropriate PMs

Not to me they’re not!

It's against guidelines

I have received punishment in the past for "troll hunting"

Best to report concerns and move on to threads that do interest you

Yes I agree, strange subject for discussion amongst strangers.
I doubt our earlier experiences vary much anyway

Looking back through the OP’s posts, this is clearly a topic of great interest.
Nana75 Is this all about your husband’s first experience?
It seems you can’t come to terms with the fact he had a previous lover.

Yes with disastrous consequences

With whom he got back in touch …

If anyone is receiving inappropriate PMs, take a screen shot and show it.
No wish to offend but if you don’t know how to take a screen shot I’ll explain how.

Interesting that the only person who has answered this question is a man!

We are not interested OP,go and post over on Mumsnet,they will be delighted to engage with you.You come across as childish on here.

Ladyripple

Interesting that the only person who has answered this question is a man!

We are not interested OP,go and post over on Mumsnet,they will be delighted to engage with you.You come across as childish on here.

I agree with you re gransnet.

The response from Bobcat came across as coarse.

Sorry re mumsnet!

Germanshepherdsmum

With whom he got back in touch …

By email, so she is online despite what OP claims.

There are clearly one deep seated issues and I don’t see how this thread can do anything to resolve them. Clutching at straws perhaps?

We’re such sleuths but it’s not hard.

A once regular poster started a thread about someone local to her who was in trouble with the law, she knew the person because she had taught him, she had divulged information in previous threads that meant in less than 5 minutes I had found this person online, I immediately alerted her, she was genuinely really shocked and had the post removed.

It’s amazing what a trail we all leave behind!

Definitely not a prude, but it's nobody else's business - why would anyone want to know anyway ?

I don't actually want to discuss the intimate details but (except to say there was an overly interested Labrador, a pal who couldn't take the hint and a parcel that needed to be signed for, all of which killed the moment!) but I don't think there is any harm saying whether you were a virgin when you married or your attitude towards sex before marriage.

As to the "nice girls don't", I'd been abused a few years before so I didn't feel 'nice'. I was more worried about being arrested as I was a week before my 16th Birthday as my mother used to take great pleasure in telling us that was what would happen.

MerylStreep

Perv alert. 🔔

Yup. Definitely.

I seriously can’t imagine that in the seventies there were any girls who were married as virgins, I definitely didn’t know any, a lot of us weren’t especially interested in marriage at all.

Probably in the “70s” a lot of women had only had sex with the man they married. Now I guess there are very few, IMO having a lot of partners is bad partly for women’s emotional welfare but also men taking easy sex for granted.

As a student in the late 60's/70's I knew of 50 shades of Palatinate Purple. I'm not saying I indulged nor would I want to know the details of anyone who did.