Luckygirl3
As the grandmother of an 18 year old who wishes to change gender, this video makes my heart sink. My GC is, as are many gender confused young people, on the autistic spectrum, although this would not be apparent to anyone not in the know. This is a very common factor in gender dysphoria and makes it even more concerning that these already damaged young people are being medicated and mutilated.
Ironically my dear GC will not be a candidate for surgery or other treatment because they have a serious physical illness that makes them medically unfit for intervention. I never thought I would feel relief that they are so ill .........
I have another DGC who, at the age of 11, is having an "identity crisis" - I have not asked for details - I cannot cope with the idea of another of my DGC being in this mess. I just shower them in love and tell them how proud I am of them.
Society has moved from accepting that some people feel differently about their gender and respecting their wishes socially (all good) to seriously contemplating irreversible interventions on children (all bad).
I sometimes wonder what future historians will make of all this - perhaps they will see it all as on a par with feeling head bumps - only far far more dangerous.
Ironically my dear GC will not be a candidate for surgery or other treatment because they have a serious physical illness that makes them medically unfit for intervention. I never thought I would feel relief that they are so ill .........
I think most will understand your sense of 'relief' from that perspective.
I have another DGC who, at the age of 11, is having an "identity crisis" - I have not asked for details - I cannot cope with the idea of another of my DGC being in this mess. I just shower them in love and tell them how proud I am of them.
Showing affection and boosting their sense of self-worth is probably the best 'therapy' any family member can offer. You seem very caring and understanding.
I'm beginning to believe that just about all children at some point in their maturing, experience an identity crisis to one degree or another, and that it's a complex matter that has been hijacked by trans activists to fulfil their agenda.
I'm sure gender dysphoria is real and that it leads to mental health problems if it's not, at least, acknowledged. But just how many children / young people really understand all the composites involved other than their own very personal and narrow experience?
Can they really give informed consent?
I'd add that with all the intense emphasis on appearance by that section of the media obsessed with the world of celebrity, fashion and entertainment - not to mention "Influencers" on social media - it's hardly surprising that the young, even children, are focused on their bodies.
But that's only one aspect of a very intricate part of the development of child-to-adult. I also believe that how an individual chooses to identify is about more than sex - it's how you relate to society, and the world, in general, and is an ongoing process throughout life.
Early 'interventions' with therapies such as puberty blockers, medication, and surgeries, that might have irreversible and damaging effects, really does now have to be a debateable point.