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How to break with hairdresser?

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EllaMary Mon 12-Aug-24 16:18:47

I have had my hair cut by the same girl for the last 27 years. She is excellent, and has always charged a little more than other hairdressers, which, while my husband and I had our business, was absolutely fine. However, my husband passed four years ago, and although I am not pleading poverty, I cannot warrant paying her fee. She has just put it up again, and I’ve worked it out that over a year i would be paying about £11.50 per week! The awkward thing is that she is best friends with my son and his wife….. Any suggestions how I can tell her in a polite friendly way that I am not going to her any more? Many thanks

Spinnaker Mon 12-Aug-24 18:18:23

Fleurpepper

Nottalking about colour JaneJudge- just cut and blow. Colour is always expensive (and how glad I am I have accepted my salt and pepper look).

Cut and Finish is £60 for me. When I have my full colours done it's £140 including the cut and finish, with the root touch ups at £90.

I did the silly thing of totting it up for the year a few weeks ago and I'm just now debating looking for something slightly less expensive !

pascal30 Mon 12-Aug-24 18:20:11

JaneJudge

I have a cut, colour and finish for £90

my hairdresser comes to my house and charges £45 for a cut and colour.. she's brilliant..

Tuaim Mon 12-Aug-24 18:24:04

Fleurpepper

So, how much do people pay for a cut and blowdry these days?

£56.

BlueBelle Mon 12-Aug-24 18:25:31

OMG £60 for a cut and what does finish mean ?that’s very very very expensive if it’s cut and blow dry Spinaker

Nannarose Mon 12-Aug-24 18:30:40

I do agree that you have to be honest. Make it clear that you are not asking for a discount, however she may prefer to offer one rather than lose you. Treat it initially as a problem to be discussed rather than a 'break up'.

This sounds like a huge amount to me but so do most of the prices quoted. Like Pamela70, I wonder if you can re-jig what you have done.
I always have a wet cut - I am allergic to so many hair products - it's easier to use my own and go with wet hair than to take my products with me.

I am also astounded by how many older women colour their hair - could you try to see what it might look like 'nude'?

I have a feeling I am on a different planet! Anyway, good luck!

BlueBelle Mon 12-Aug-24 18:35:52

Nanarose I m with you all the way I m lucky that my very fair hair has gone a very pale ash blonde in old age so I ve never had my hair coloured I have a simple pixie cut which I have every 5 weeks so that’s a wash, cut, blow dry with mousse and spray £18 that’s way enough for me So I mon that planet with you

J52 Mon 12-Aug-24 18:38:30

I pay £47 for a trim and blow dry. I’ve been growing it so extended the time between to 8 weeks. Now it’s where I want it I’ll go back to 6 weeks.
My stylist left in the spring and I now have the salon owner who’s much more cheerful and entertaining.

Witzend Mon 12-Aug-24 18:45:43

‘Sorry, but I just can’t afford your charges any more.’

I wish I could have used that excuse when I stopped using the hairdresser I’d used for donkeys’ years - because she was just down the road and I could always get an appointment quickly.

But she really wasn’t very good! I see her now and then, she waves when I have to walk past the salon, but I haven’t actually spoken to her, so maybe I’ll never have to tell her the truth.

TBH, since the place has been going for so long but is never busy, I’ve come to suspect that it’s a money-laundering front for her dh’s business.

Chocolatelovinggran Mon 12-Aug-24 18:55:36

Oh Nannarose, no one would want to see me nude...
Regarding hair colour, I'm waiting for the white to take over the mousy fair and then I will embrace my new look and ditch the colouring. Until then, my hair appointments continue. I cut down on " finish" and just have cut and colour.
My hair " finished" looks like a wig.

Bea65 Mon 12-Aug-24 19:35:08

BlueBelle

EllaMary worked out that it came to £11.50 a week it doesn’t mean she has it cut every week Bea if she has it cut monthly which most people do then she’s paying £46 a hair cut

[BlueBelle] I never mentioned the cost of a cut😳 I don’t have a monthly cut or trim both of which are priced differently
A cut would be approximately £46-50 and a trim around £30 which I have maybe 6-8 wks just depending on my mood and how my hair is behaving or misbehaving in this humidity —- I hope OP considers the value of her present stylist as looking for a new salon or stylist cheaper can be hit or miss

Fleurpepper Mon 12-Aug-24 20:04:48

Blimey, I just can't believe those prices.

Floradora9 Mon 12-Aug-24 21:43:06

I lve in a small town and my hairdresser charges £30 for a cut and blow dry. I go every 6 weeks bur grudge the price.I tried going elsewhere when she was on holiday but it was only a few pounds less .

Fleurpepper Mon 12-Aug-24 21:53:33

£30 seems fair. Quite shocked that many of you pay a lot more than I do, in France, or even in Switzerland.

38 Euros, or 42 Francs.

Skydancer Mon 12-Aug-24 21:55:18

But who will you use instead.

Ali08 Mon 12-Aug-24 21:55:30

You see hairdresser every week? Is your hair made of bamboo?

Ali08 Mon 12-Aug-24 21:57:01

Find a barber!!

LadyStardust Mon 12-Aug-24 22:04:15

My lovely hairdresser is mobile and visits my home. She does a colour/trim for me, a trim for Mr Stardust and charges me £25. I dry my curly hair naturally so there are no blow dry costs. I'm in Yorkshire. No way would I pay some of the charges mentioned!

midgey Mon 12-Aug-24 22:27:59

Pensioners price for me, just a cut sixteen pounds fifty!

NotSpaghetti Mon 12-Aug-24 22:54:40

Ali08

You see hairdresser every week? Is your hair made of bamboo?

grin

I love this idea! - though it's a bit scary!

kittylester Mon 12-Aug-24 22:56:17

Cut and blow dry every 6 weeks is £45 fir me and 4 times a year my colour is £80.

To be honest, it would be about the last 'luxury' I would do without.

sharon103 Tue 13-Aug-24 01:18:03

Be honest and tell the the truth.
I think I would phone round first to see what others are charging and ask if they do a pensioners discount. Some do.
Not knowing your age, have you asked your present hairdresser if she does a discount for over 60's.

Tuaim Tue 13-Aug-24 06:51:39

Where I live some of the hairdressers do special pensioner days and some pensioners go to the local further education college where they train hairdressers. A friend of mine with very curly hair always comes away looking very good.

GrannyIvy Tue 13-Aug-24 07:10:22

Having a good hairdresser to me is important and if you went to someone else who was less expensive but not happy how would you feel.

I have had the same hairdresser for over 20 years. He is expensive but I enjoy going to him and he cuts and colours and finishes it well. I always come out feeling happy and relaxed after a good chat catching up on all his and my news. Plus I get a good coffee, soft drinks and biscuits. I so look forward to my visit every 7 to 8 weeks. I pay £115 for the colour, cut and blow dry. I would cut back on other things but not my hair do!!

Buttonjugs Tue 13-Aug-24 11:14:32

I’ve got bleached blonde hair and have my roots done every six weeks with a trim. My hairdresser comes to my house and trims my sons hair too. It costs £73 for both of us.

Grandma2002 Tue 13-Aug-24 11:15:53

I pay £42.50 for an excellent cut, I have very short hair so it is really only maintenance. My hairdresser comes to me every 3-4 weeks. She is very skilled and does exactly what I ask.