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merlotgran Sat 31-Aug-24 11:19:41

If this were a light hearted thread, I’d be tempted to suggest that Gransnet is beginning to feel like Midsomer Murders. Yet another poster has disappeared in mysterious circumstances.

It’s deadly serious though. Attempts to contact Urmstongran are falling on stony ground and many of us are concerned because we know how challenging her life is at the moment.

Many of us have received messages of support from Urms when life has dealt us the cruellest of blows and yet we are unable to contact her via pms.

She always let us know when she was taking a break from GN so to go on a long awaited holiday and just disappear is out of character.

I suspect foul play and I’m not taking the p**s!

kittylester Sat 31-Aug-24 12:10:16

All aspects of GN are less tolerant now. It's sad.

Chestnut Sat 31-Aug-24 12:10:43

crazyH

shinamae - please give GSM my fondest regards.

GSM is reading these threads and will know people care about her and that she has gone.

EkwaNimitee Sat 31-Aug-24 12:11:19

JaxjackyWhitewave made a brief appearance on the News and Politics thread (IHT) yesterday.

MissInterpreted Sat 31-Aug-24 12:11:34

The posters mentioned are definitely all missed, whether they have been suspended, banned or chosen to leave. I may not always have agreed with some of their views, but I respected them. I honestly don't understand why we can't just agree to disagree over things and behave like the adults we are supposed to be. To those who are still in touch with them, do pass on my regards.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 31-Aug-24 12:12:22

Shinamae

GrannyGravy13

Cossy

Thank you GG13, good to know.

Anyone know about GSM

I think she was suspended for a few weeks and has now decided to ,eave GN.

I am in touch with GSM and she has not decided to leave. She has been banned..

Oh flipping heck!!

I am sure GNHQ thinks we are all in our dotage mumsnet posters seem to be far more robust and are given a lot more leeway.

Please pass on my regards to GSM

Jaxjacky Sat 31-Aug-24 12:14:34

Thank you EkwaNimitee I’ve missed her lovely posts on Good Morning.

Kate1949 Sat 31-Aug-24 12:15:00

GSM was very kind to me despite our differing views about dogs!

OldFrill Sat 31-Aug-24 12:15:34

BigBopper

I think that some of the posters who got their hands slapped are coming back under another non-de-plume. I can easily tell who they used to be even though they have changed their name, simply because of the way they answer posts.

There were a few posters who were banned because of the way they made fun of certain people who posted and even though they have changed their name, they cannot change the way they answer peoples posts, a leopard never changes it's spots.

In fact I have been thinking of leaving because without those posters, the website was more pleasant but now they are back it is not as pleasant.

Unless you have the ability to hide your IP then simply changing your name isn't going to get you back to the forum.

Chestnut Sat 31-Aug-24 12:19:16

I'm afraid this is what happens when people report another poster. They disappear. There has been a lot of reporting it seems and that can only be a bad thing. It will change the dynamics of the site and turn it into an echo chamber.

fancythat Sat 31-Aug-24 12:24:43

And Callistemon?
Perhaps she is back and I dont know.

I know virtually nothing of GN history.

Cossy Sat 31-Aug-24 12:25:02

crazyH

I miss GSM - she was so helpful. She was generous with her legal advice p, in a very understated way.

I miss her too! Even her bluntness and politics!

Cossy Sat 31-Aug-24 12:25:47

Chestnut

I'm afraid this is what happens when people report another poster. They disappear. There has been a lot of reporting it seems and that can only be a bad thing. It will change the dynamics of the site and turn it into an echo chamber.

I’ve NEVER reported anyone on GN and would prefer to call-out anything I take issue with!

fancythat Sat 31-Aug-24 12:27:12

I'm afraid this is what happens when people report another poster

Ironically, I reported a regular poster last week. For the first time in my 18 months.
And I am glad I did.
I think we all have lines that cannot really be crossed.

I am a mild poster. And person. I think.
But I am not a doormat, and I dont think people should be.

Cossy Sat 31-Aug-24 12:27:18

kittylester

All aspects of GN are less tolerant now. It's sad.

It’s very sad!

Anyone know what’s happened to Glorianny (maybe wrong spelling)

fancythat Sat 31-Aug-24 12:27:40

I called it out as well.

fancythat Sat 31-Aug-24 12:28:41

Cossy

kittylester

All aspects of GN are less tolerant now. It's sad.

It’s very sad!

Anyone know what’s happened to Glorianny (maybe wrong spelling)

Forgotten about her.

There are a lot of posters beginning with the letters C, G, M and N.
I get them confused, unfortunately.

NotSpaghetti Sat 31-Aug-24 12:32:43

GSM and Iwere often on different sides of the argument but remained respectful.
I'm glad I know what happened as I have tried several times to PM her (about the time she vanished) and the messages didn't say the account was closed/suspended or whatever - it just came up as an error.

I wish there was a way Gransnet could say "this poster is currently unavailable" or similar.
So "Hello GSM". It wasn't anything important just that. "Hello - hope you are OK".

Aldom Sat 31-Aug-24 12:47:30

I am so pleased to hear that Urmstongran is OK, just having technical issues. All best wishes Urms. smile

Marydoll Sat 31-Aug-24 12:51:04

Unfortunately, the last two threads about missing posters were deleted by GNHQ. I wonder how long this one will last.

I am in touch with Callistemon, she is still reading, but unable to post.
Unfortunately, it is always the interesting posters, who disappear.

fancythat Sat 31-Aug-24 12:58:08

I still remain clueless as to what she is supposed to have done that was so bad.

merlotgran Sat 31-Aug-24 13:04:39

Marydoll

Unfortunately, the last two threads about missing posters were deleted by GNHQ. I wonder how long this one will last.

I am in touch with Callistemon, she is still reading, but unable to post.
Unfortunately, it is always the interesting posters, who disappear.

Back in the day there was a website called GrannyNet. The posts were pre moderated and it was so twee everyone died of boredom.

It closed!!

We’re not children and this current censorship is insulting.

Helllo Calli 👋👋

biglouis Sat 31-Aug-24 13:11:32

Unless you have the ability to hide your IP then simply changing your name isn't going to get you back to the forum

There are some easy ways around this. If you use a mobile device (as opposed to a laptop of PC) your IP will be slightly different each time you go online.

Then there are VPNS.

Chestnut Sat 31-Aug-24 13:11:55

fancythat

I still remain clueless as to what she is supposed to have done that was so bad.

That applies to all those who have been banned. It seems there are people who won't tolerate others posting different views to their own. Snowflakes presumably.

I have only reported the scammers and fake posters when it's obvious they are not real people. Otherwise I don't care what anyone says, I will never report them. Live and let live. Accept that others will say things you don't like.

Cossy Sat 31-Aug-24 13:12:56

MissInterpreted

The posters mentioned are definitely all missed, whether they have been suspended, banned or chosen to leave. I may not always have agreed with some of their views, but I respected them. I honestly don't understand why we can't just agree to disagree over things and behave like the adults we are supposed to be. To those who are still in touch with them, do pass on my regards.

And mine too please

Cossy Sat 31-Aug-24 13:16:25

fancythat

^I'm afraid this is what happens when people report another poster^

Ironically, I reported a regular poster last week. For the first time in my 18 months.
And I am glad I did.
I think we all have lines that cannot really be crossed.

I am a mild poster. And person. I think.
But I am not a doormat, and I dont think people should be.

I think if anyone is insulting us personally (or any other GN for that matter) then they should be reported, likewise scammers.

I miss those no longer posting and wish them well (& to come back please)