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merlotgran Sat 31-Aug-24 11:19:41

If this were a light hearted thread, I’d be tempted to suggest that Gransnet is beginning to feel like Midsomer Murders. Yet another poster has disappeared in mysterious circumstances.

It’s deadly serious though. Attempts to contact Urmstongran are falling on stony ground and many of us are concerned because we know how challenging her life is at the moment.

Many of us have received messages of support from Urms when life has dealt us the cruellest of blows and yet we are unable to contact her via pms.

She always let us know when she was taking a break from GN so to go on a long awaited holiday and just disappear is out of character.

I suspect foul play and I’m not taking the p**s!

TerriBull Sat 31-Aug-24 13:16:35

I'm sure Urmstongran will reappear once she's back in the country, I hope so.

I do miss Callistemon, I can't imagine why she was ever banned, always worth reading, with a good sense of humour, personally I like a bit of levity depending on the subject matter.

I hope all the posters mentioned will return they all had something to offer imo.

GrannySomerset Sat 31-Aug-24 13:20:00

Very depressing that so many intelligent and interesting people have been disappeared - feels very sinister. I value the range of views, some of which I disagree with. It all helps me keep in touch with the wider world and stops me being certain that I am right all the time.

grandMattie Sat 31-Aug-24 13:28:28

GrannyGravy13

I am in touch with Urmstongran she is well.

Unfortunately she is experiencing technical difficulties with GN, and GNHQ are not responding.

Oh, I’m SO relieved, GG13H. Thank you!
Give her my love when you next contact her, please.

Marydoll Sat 31-Aug-24 13:29:56

biglouis

*Unless you have the ability to hide your IP then simply changing your name isn't going to get you back to the forum*

There are some easy ways around this. If you use a mobile device (as opposed to a laptop of PC) your IP will be slightly different each time you go online.

Then there are VPNS.

Exactly this! That is why some can come back after changing their username and rename undetected.

Anniebach Sat 31-Aug-24 13:31:00

I too miss Callistemon

merlotgran Sat 31-Aug-24 13:31:31

kittylester
All aspects of GN are less tolerant now. It's sad.

Yes it is. HQ just don’t get that friendships can be formed in groups like Gransnet even though you might never meet the person in real life.

We were all deeply saddened when phoenix died and every time jingl was banned I felt like I did at school when a good friend moved house and had to leave.

HQ lacks basic humanity. Behind every username there is a real person!

SueDonim Sat 31-Aug-24 13:31:41

I agree with Terribull. If, as it seems, people are banned on the say-so of one poster, it’s as though we’re being ruled by petty tyrants.

I must admit that I often don’t notice the names of posters and can never remember who said what anyway, but I think banning people makes GN a less interesting place.

Aldom Sat 31-Aug-24 13:31:51

Hello Callistermon you are much missed. Hope you are able to return to GN at some time in the future.
Good wishes.

buffyfly9 Sat 31-Aug-24 13:37:52

I presume GN has had to go "woke" hence a sort of restriction on honest and open debate. I think GSM lives in my area and when I go into my local town I have been looking for a lady with German shepherds out shopping!! I'm pleased she is not leaving.

BlueBelle Sat 31-Aug-24 13:42:18

I m so stupid I never manage to recognise old posters who change their names I really just read what people have to say and not who they are
Like others have said I don’t report only adverts or scammers like all the spells etc
I can’t imagine why anyone would have reported Callistemom, mind you I got a post deleted a few days ago and I can’t think why? as it was totally innocuous but I do wonder if the poster who said English wasn’t her first language got the wrong end of the stick and reported it it’s a mystery but worrying, if you didn’t say anything bad , and HQ don’t tell you what they think you said wrong No way to defend yourself No word from them about it !!

OldFrill Sat 31-Aug-24 13:42:58

buffyfly9

I presume GN has had to go "woke" hence a sort of restriction on honest and open debate. I think GSM lives in my area and when I go into my local town I have been looking for a lady with German shepherds out shopping!! I'm pleased she is not leaving.

I can't imagine she'd take her Shepherd's "shopping".
To the beach, yes

Grammaretto Sat 31-Aug-24 13:47:46

Hi there Urms, Callistemon and GSM and any others who haven't posted for a while. You are missed.

I don't report posters, only scammers in the middle of the night.

silverlining48 Sat 31-Aug-24 13:50:50

Like BlueBelle I don’t recognise anyone by their style and wonder why.
I have been on GN for coming up 10 years and remember Greatnan and her ssd story .
There are others who have left who I don’t miss but I have never reported anyone, not yet anyway grin

RosiesMaw2 Sat 31-Aug-24 14:15:23

Grammaretto

Hi there Urms, Callistemon and GSM and any others who haven't posted for a while. You are missed.

I don't report posters, only scammers in the middle of the night.

Let’s not beat about the bush.
These posters/friends have had their accounts terminated for whatever heinous crime HQ saw fit to discern.
Clearly there had been some previous reporting (HQ does not moderate on spec) and deletions., which would have arisen from the reporting.
Hate crime, racism, misogyny , libel, slander they were not.
We are adults on an adult site (don’t take this the wrong way blush ) and I saw no reason in any of the instances for accounts to be suspended or permanently cancelled
The goalposts are altogether too mobile - one jokey post warrants suspension or worse, another political opinion robustly expressed sends someone to the Gulag. Hmm, does that sound familiar?
So, if GNHQ so chooses I would ask them to reply to justify their draconian actions and explain to the mystified rest of us why we are deprived of the company of stimulating and respected GN members.
Of course they may choose to delete my post as being somehow “in breach of guidelines” - but since when are guidelines the same as laws ?
If it comes to it, move over in the dog house - room for a little one? 🐶

GrannyGravy13 Sat 31-Aug-24 14:24:19

RosiesMaw2 👏👏👏

sukie Sat 31-Aug-24 14:27:36

RosiesMaw2 "Hear, Hear!"

Millie22 Sat 31-Aug-24 14:31:54

It's almost like Doghouse 2 with so many missing.

Hello to Calli

I do think MN and GN are treated differently imo.

RosiesMaw2 Sat 31-Aug-24 14:33:08

The Doghouse up to FIVE at one point.
Serous overcrowding! 🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶

kittylester Sat 31-Aug-24 14:39:24

But cosy!

RosiesMaw2 Sat 31-Aug-24 14:40:16

Saves on fuel?

fancythat Sat 31-Aug-24 14:41:05

Some points from the last posts.

Surprised that GNHQ do not tell people why they have been deleted. How can posters "improve their ways" if they do not know what they are supposed to have done?

I hope GN has not gone woke.

Surely people are not suspended or whatever, on the strength of one post that GNHQ do not like.

Does, "technical difficulties" really mean something else? Whatever that may be?

I do take on board though, that at the end of the day, this site is owned by GN.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 31-Aug-24 14:42:25

This is from Urmstongran all suggestions and any help is very welcome.

merlotgran Sat 31-Aug-24 14:46:22

GrannyGravy13

This is from Urmstongran all suggestions and any help is very welcome.

I think we should all report your post to HQ, GG13 giving our reasons why. Surely they will take notice?

GrannyGravy13 Sat 31-Aug-24 14:54:36

merlotgran I tried that the other day.

I reported my post and asked for assistance for Urms my request was ignored…

Primrose53 Sat 31-Aug-24 14:56:26

buffyfly9

I presume GN has had to go "woke" hence a sort of restriction on honest and open debate. I think GSM lives in my area and when I go into my local town I have been looking for a lady with German shepherds out shopping!! I'm pleased she is not leaving.

buffyfly. GSM lives in rural north norfolk, just a few miles from me. Do you live here too?

GSM and myself hold very similar views on many things, particularly illegal immigration. We are in favour of controlled immigration and not afraid to say so.