FranT my heart goes out to you, such a terrible loss is heartbreaking. I hope you find some comfort in the love of posters here. Ladies you are wonderful. I do not post often but have watched GN from the start. The love and support and friendship shown far outweighs the occasional unpleasantness, the cruel behaviour aimed at a grieving family a few weeks back was unforgivable and reduced me to tears. However this was not the GN I have watched developes through the years. These terrible times we are living through have shown the wonderful caring side of humn nature. I have lived 85yrs and people can still surprise me. Thank you GN posters keep it up.