Today I just want to scream.....

Why do u talk to her? It gave me an headache just reading it. Nite and take care

i totally agree with you ,though i do get out into the communal gardens to do some gardening .my neighbour in the next block makes me want to scream ,she is always RIGHT no matter what subject we discuss... yesterday she told ther kids off because they mixed with the kids downstairs ,didnt bother me one iota .. i was indoors. i came out to pick lettuce ..she goes off down the pathway out the gate to talk to someone in a car .no two metres distancing.i asked her why she told off the kids and she not keeping her distance from the people in the car. well i couldnt hear them she says . so i said well dont go telling off the kids for enjoying themselves..... course she went off in one. saying i go shopping .yes says me i am a volunteer for salvation army and i wear my badge to prove it and i keep my distance.anyway this evening water the flowers etc, she said why dont you do mine.? i do sometimes. but she likes to do her own anyway .grrrrrrrrrr.. next we was talking about foot and mouth disease. was telling her my brother worked in laboratory when this was about .oh no he didnt says she. YES he did .no i know your brother and he didnt. em no you dont .....grrrrrrr. told her she likes to think she always right but she not .grabbed my washing basket off the bench and went upstairs .she bellowed up the stairs. you think you know it all. no answer from me. her .why you not talking to me. me .why do you think. !!!! grrrrrrrr......

Anne107 What an awful time to be alone in lockdown- what lovely responses you've received from all your friends at Gransnet. I hope this has cheered you up a little, just knowing people do care. Now put your shoes on, no need for a jacket, get outside and have a little walk.

Do you have any friends with gardens? Yesterday I invited a friend who lives alone to come and sit in my garden. She only has a very small patio. It was the first time she had seen anyone apart from neighbours in passing since lockdown began. We both really enjoyed our socially distanced meeting.

I truly feel for you but you seem to be doing very well on the whole. You make me feel guilty now as I have low days but am living with my family and have a garden. You are doing amazing. I think there’s some good advice on here re online art classes and trying to get out for a walk. Evening sounds like a good time - then at least you’ve got something to look forward to all day. Beware too of other people’s posts on social media - remember they probably only post the good things which can paint a false picture and doesn’t relate to what they’re really feeling inside. Take care lovely and I hope you’re feeling brighter very soon xx

A feel for you, I have a garden and feel quite guilty at times thinking of people who dont have gardens and greenery around them.Try and go out with some form of face cover, when you see people and different surroundings you will feel so much better.Sending you hugs and flowers.

I’ll check him out flaxwoven. Is it just me but I’ve been, in my imagination, doing favourite walks: sitting on a beach etc. It’s as if my memory, which is usually pretty awful, is trawling through it’s archives and taking me to much loved places. I guess it’s the sort of thing that relaxation tapes do.

I stopped using Facebook because it's so unreal. Everyone is having a happy party and of course their lives are not like that at all. It's all false. I go for a walk every day and it's good just to see real people instead of on TV or the computer. I feel like I'm still part of the human race. I'm sure walking in the fresh air is fine as long as we keep our distance. There's a chap on Utube called Richard Vobes and he goes on walks all over the country. He gives a running commentary and it feels as if you're walking along country lanes with him.

Anne I had a low day y'day, couldn't be bothered with anything. My friend phoned & could tell by my voice I was fed up. Today I went for a walk & just baked a chocolate cake. Leaving some, for a friend, on my doorstep( so I don't eat it all). Feel better today cos I've kept myself occupied. Look at art on the internet, have a go. I've also been enjoying The Chelsea Flower Show programmes that have been on this week. All the beautiful, colourful flowers makes me smile. Hope you have better days ahead.

I do worry about people who are on their own and thank goodness you have a puss cat as they can really helo with our mental health.
I am assuming that even though you live on a ground floor you have no direct access from your flat to the outside where you could put a fold up chair out during the day and bring in at night. All the plans you made feel as though they are in tatters but they aren't really - they've just been postponed.
Get a face covering - a mask or even a scarf & go out for a little walk...do it early in the morning or later in the day (its light now to about 9.00pm). Just a change of scenery will lift your spirits - it does mine. If you need to talk to someone Silverline is still operating. Please know you aren't alone xxx

Yes, Ann ...me too ...I made the mistake of buying a retirement flat …..but now it is getting like a care home sadly …..people who really are not fit to live independently live here and have carers...this means the rest of us are having to isolate under the same rules which is unfair ! the lovely garden access is locked, the benches are taped up ..there are notices on the doors saying NO VISITORS no deliveries (they are left outside in the car park !) the apartment owners (a well known retirement apartment builder) has said this block is NOT a care home, but as people own their own flats there is nothing they can do …..but it is such a shame we are ALL in lockdown and a lot of us are under 60 (it is an over 55 development !) so life is very difficult ! There is one lady here who is desperate to get into a care home but cannot...on the other hand, there is a very dependant man living here who came BACK from the care home saying he hated it ...he falls regularly, involving the ambulance, 111, paramedics, etc ! His son is a GP and has urged him to go into a care home as he cannot cope alone ...but he refuses absolutely ! He is very vulnerable but determinedly independent ...so what can you do ! He had the ambulance out in the middle of the night the other day after a fall ...they were there until 3.00am but since he refuses to go to hospital they had to leave him there. He has carers three times a day and has the neighbours up all the time ...very hard ! On the other hand, there is one lady who has lived here for 25 years and is now 97 ...she still does her own shopping, walks along the prom and sits and looks at the sea ….I offer to help get the shopping for her but she says it is the only time she gets out bless her ! I live on my own too, but now exercise is allowed more than once a day I am out ...who knew visiting a different supermarket every day could be so exciting ! (hand gel, gloves, masks ….actually all sent from Germany to me by my German friends !) and 2 metre distance …..fingers crossed I can visit the caravan I bought to escape the care home (sorry, retirement independent living apartment !!!!!!!!) stay safe

Anne you could still do a bit of gardening, can you afford to get some planters (the garden centres are open now near us) and plant and maintain them. Seeds are cheap enough with a bit of compost. Or see if any neighbours are throwing out old crates etc and make your own little piece of garden outside of your apartment, it will lift your spirits when you're at home. Or a walk in the park would help. I look after hubby who has dementia and is bedridden, I haven't seen GC for 8 weeks but I have my dogs and there's nothing better than to sit outside for half an hour to get some fresh air and sunlight. You don't need a big garden xx

I’m in the vulnerable shielding category but I still sneak out early in the morning and walk my tiny dogs on the beach. I’m so lucky to have a car so I’m not in any danger. Front door to car. Then car to beach. I avoid everyone like the plague and make sure they’re two metres from me.
Please go for a walk. It will lift your spirits xx

As a couple of people have said things are not always rosy for folks who live with a partner. I would nt cope if I didn’t go for walks and occasionally to the supermarket. I find most people are good at keeping their distance. I am just praying it will be over soon. I’m in Scotland so we are still very restricted.

I just signed into utube but will be looking forward to it later, just off to deliver shopping now. I'm looking forward to raising the roof!! Thank you for this and happy singingx

Hurray, Jishere. Have you found all the sheet music and the tracks for each part? Think we'll be singing Ordinary World tonight and maybe Somewhere only we know. Oh and maybe Gloria.

Thanks Rowyn I just signed up to the online choir. I doubt the neighbours will want to thank you though!??

I just realised this is the time to do things you wouldnt have dreamt doing before. Has anyone else found a new hobby?

praying for all of us here.

I have lung problems and have had three shielding letters. I stayed in for six weeks and felt my health deteriorating. I have just been for a brisk half hour walk. Everyone seems much friendlier and people cross the road so as to not walk too close.

We speak to neighbours from a distance and many of them have offered to shop for us if needed.

A mask would not be much use in protecting you. The idea is to stop you infecting other people but you haven't been anywhere to catch anything!

Then of course there is the saying that this too will pass. There's light to look forward to.

There is a saying feel the fear and do it anyway. Go out for short walks and keep social distancing. Only go as far as you feel able and build it up with a few walks a day as you feel fit. Don't be frightened of going alone. If you had a turn I'm sure someone would do.something. Have you got a mobile phone you can take. Exercise or lack of it affects the mind too. I have multiple health issues too. No I'm not living alone in New Zealand although at times being cooped up with hubby 24/7 I would have liked some space. You are lonely and are missing social contact. I found when I went to bed at night I think now what will i do tommorow. I set myself one or two little things to.do. It just makes you feel more in control of your own life. Take time to.pamper yourself. Look after your skin or do your nails. Doesn't matter what age we are we are still a woman. Put some makeup.on just for you. Just let us know how you are going. We are all in this together even across the world.

If you are pre-diabetic, exercise is the best thing you can do to distance yourself from it. The reason diabetics are in more danger with C-19 is from the damage to the vascular system and organs that has happened from the diabetes. You will not have had that happen unless you have other ailments so you are not at a greater risk so do not let that keep you inside. Go out and really take notice of your surroundings. Stand and watch the wildlife if you can or just look at the beauty of flowers and how they are made. You'll find the combination of exercise and mindfulness is mood lifting.

You wouldn't know there is a lock down here ,the beach was full of people .close together, and miles of cars lining the roads in to the town
Local people aren't happy as most of us are staying at home
Although no toilets or cafes open,they still came

As many have said already please get out for a little walk, you are allowed to sit outside in parks etc now. Why don’t you pick a time of day when you feel there will be less people around and take a leisurely stroll and sit in the afternoon sun for abit. Also do you have anywhere outside your door where you could maybe get a few pots with plants that you could tend to.
The virus is so many times weaker in the outdoors. Please step outside the door you won’t regret it.

Join an online choir. I've been singing daily with the Great British Home Chorus and Gareth Malone, though next week he's calling it half term. But he'll be back the following week. I think he's worn himself out after over 40 sessions. decca.com/greatbritishhomechorus/
Or there's another one, called the Stay At Home Choir.and maybe others I don't know about.
I'm on my own , and having that half hour session to look forward to each weekday has given the day a bit of shape, but also provided 30 minutes of forgetting everything and enjoying the singing. It really lifts my mood.
Doesn't matter how good or bad you are - no one can hear you! You can upload a recording of yourself, but that's too much technological hard work for me!