If she wont have a talk with him all she can do is be crafty and sit down to work at what is her proper time- and not rush to see to kids when they need it but to say "go ask daddy" or "go to daddy for it" every time they want something etc., and when he's disturbed from HIS work for everything, or they run around making a racket, then I'm sure he will think again! Same if there's any schooling to be done- put him down to go online or whatever it is they do- and stick to it!He will soon see they DO need it! Why should HIS work take precedence in 2021! Is he living in the 1950's?! ?
How do you acknowledge Easter.