I am a late convert to proper exercise, its far more effective than any form of dieting. By doing a proper session once a week under professional guidance (important at my age and with dodgey back and mild prolapse) and then 2 or three gentle ones during the week coupled with a few dog walks and a bit of ballroom I have slowly lost a good stone and, more importantly totally regained a waistline.
I can honestly say I've not dieted just found myself thinking 'well you worked hard do you need a second biscuit?'. I've also found myself slowly improving my diet....I pad our meals with more veg/salad than I used to yet, its almost as if my body is overriding my emotional hunger. I do still have times when only a thick slice of buttered toast will do....but they are much fewer.
If you concentrate on what you cannot eat.....it only makes you want it more. When you feel you can depend more on your body (I was feeling very old and lacking in stamina) your confidence returns and you slowly just do a bit more and take on a few more challenges. I can, also, honestly say its done far more for my emotional wellbeing than 6 months of very expensive counselling!