I'm sorry Calliecat I'm not sure what you mean by your post. If you feel your mother will cut you out of her will because you've gone no contact so she wants to 'punish' you, but you want nothing from her anyway, surely there's nothing for you to be concerned about.
It's frightening how many estrangements do take place when the estranging adult child has recently married or become involved in a new relationship Witzend.
I'm sorry your friends are having to try and cope with this heart ache.
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