*The flowers may have not been accepted at all.
She just didn't communicate/react with you at all regarding the flowers*
They could have been donated, ended up in the garbage, given to a friend, etc. Same with the presents for the gc
She is just blackholing anything you do
What is your purpose in posting that Hithere? Was it to help, advise, cause more pain to a poster already in pain, "tell it as it is" (except noone knows if "it is") or was there another reason/purpose that I am missing?
I imagine everyone, including nananet is perfectly well aware that what you say is a possibility, just as the flowers and presents being accepted is a possibility!!