missingmarietta I’m sorry to hear your story.
I understand how hard it is to become a part of anything after such rejection.
It is possible to rid yourself of the “Cinderella” complex, if its any consolation the scapegoat child usually develops into a much more rounded person than the golden child.
It’s taken me years to believe in myself and sometimes I can still hear my mothers voice telling me I’m not liked or making a fool of myself. She shattered my confidence and I really felt that I was some kind of second class reject.
I hope you can find a way to become part of something and restore your confidence.
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