Over the weekend I reacted very badly to the way I am being punished by my son.
I had apologised recently for something instigated by his fiancé who had been so nasty to me but my son wasn’t interested in how nasty she’s been,twisting the truth of what I had actually said.
Every time I was in her company she snapped at me changing what I had said so I realised it was not safe for me to be with her alone as she changed the version of events. She stepped it up the day they moved in together.
She also talks to her own daughter in this manner and it has been very upsetting to see a small child’s eyes fill up with tears and her lip trembling with hurt. She also nags at my son relentlessly and he had told me of the doubt he has marrying her.
I would have stayed around and tried to keep a relationship with him but she is such an uptight person it’s impossible because I didn’t trust her.
I have bowed out sadly because of reading so much material and stories on the subject of estrangement that I didn’t want to go down this road paved with tears and heartbreak.
I’m not a person to put up with injustice and have had enough of it in my life.
My son didn’t see his father for years and over the last quite a few years has rebuilt his relationship with his father and half brothers and l am happy for them. I still have contact with some of them and have no problem what so ever with my ex husband and his partner.
I have worked away from home for years after a breakdown and my son called me frequently as l did him during this time.
Although he’s told me that she’s always miserable and gets resentful when he tells her of his happy childhood l don’t understand why he’s still full on getting married.
I hope he’s having a happy life but I won’t be part of it. Not because I don’t want to but I could see how much l am in her way.
If they have children at least I won’t be crying about not seeing my grandchildren because I won’t be attached.
Good Morning Friday 19th April 2024