Hi, I am new to GN and I would love some advice.
I have 3 daughters and my second eldest no longer seems to want anything to do with me and I don't know why. She doesn't answer e mails or answer the phone to me, has not sent birthday or mothers day cards for a couple of years and when my husband was diagnosed with cancer recently didn't make any contact at all. When I told my sister how upset and puzzled I was , she told me that my daughter is in regular contact with her and facetimes her frequently. My eldest daughter is very close to her and when I asked what I had done to upset her sister she told me that I had not been "forgiven" for moving away 10 years ago. [ she was in her late 30's at that time ] and she didn't express any objection at the time. I have not seen or heard from her for over 2 years now but she has never told me that she wants no contact and accepts birthday money and gifts without acknowledging them and does e mail my husband when she wants help, usually money or legal. I feel stuck in limbo and don't know what I can do.
How are the wishes in a will upheld?