Norah
OnwardandUpward After many years of being excluded from milestones and nasty messages criticising my parenting, alternated with painful silences, I have decided to match my son's silence and step back from trying.
*Well done you. Life is short, live it with people who love you.*
Thanks Norah. It's a month since I gave my son the pleasure of having the last word.
He sent his brother, my youngest, a message to say they are not in the country for Christmas, so not to bother sending a gift. We don't know if it's true or not, but the result is still the same.
Nothing has changed. Except me. I stopped trying to make all the effort. Not sure if I'll ever see them again and hearing he contacted his brother to say that has made me upset. I wasn't really expecting to hear from them, but would have put a gift under the tree for my DC "in case." I had no expectations so I don't know why I'm upset.