I am so upset, the other gran hates me and Ive done nothing to cause it, Ive been polite and friendly despite knowing how she feels, Ive sent xmas cards which were never returned. Its like she loves causing an argument with DD which causes DD and me to have a heated discussion.
In my experience an argument is two differing sides of opinion and Ive always been able to talk rationally with the other person and listened to their point of view. I thought everyone was like this but this person wont listen to anything.
I have come to the conclusion she is jealous but of what ? she has more money than me, a man, lots of friends to go out with a nice home and I have none of these I face old age in poverty as Ive said on numerous threads. I try to back up DD by encouraging the little one manners and to be polite but I got criticised. what on earth have I done wrong. I would never defame her to to dgd but she said that her gran doesnt like me. I hate being disliked unless I know what Ive done then I can understand it.
My friend has similar problems but to the point that her daughter bins all the presents she sends for her DGD or leaves them out in the rain and doesnt speak to her mother for weeks. I dont want to get into that situation.
DD has said that we cannot have any parties for DGD because she cant have grannies hating each other.
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