It's over. Feel a bit of an anticlimax and really sad, but still in shock. We really looked forwards to our Grandson coming from China and prepared for it a long time. Now, nothing.
Some of you might remember on a previous post about my Grandson's diet, my Chinese daughter in law, son and Grandson came to stay. They were here two months during which she expected me to do all the cleaning and all the childcare, while she stayed in her room and did nothing. Because I work from home and couldn't take full time care of my Grandson, my son ended up doing all the childcare and I did all the housework and worked full time while she did nothing. After work I played with him and in my breaks.
Suddenly my son got a job, (he started yesterday) and since he wouldn't be doing the childcare anymore she grew more resentful of my job and started lying about me. She also stopped eating with us, which made things very awkward. She started dissappearing at meals or just beforehand. Then she walked out (it's not the first time) and today she left with my Grandson. My son has gone wherever she is after work and we have not heard from them.
There's more to it, but I just feel a bit flat.
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