I am so sorry for the situation with your GC,my sisters children were taken off her by SS in the 1970's she and her husband were alcoholics.My parents wanted to have the children but SS though with the healyh problems my parents had it would be too much for them to take 3 children one approaching her teens.They were put in a home and when my sister "appeared" to have cleaned up her act she got them back.Sadly it was all show and she soon reverted to her habit and took her abusive husband back.Sometimes I think it would have been better for her kids to have been fostered as they had a hell of a life and she nor her husband would take any advice (interference) from anyone.Perhaps you could contact SS and explain your previous relationship with the children and ask to have access to them for their sakes as well as yours .I hope it works out for you but if they are safe and well that needs to be the priority .Good luck with it and take good care of yourself
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