Annali
Hello everyone
I’m at my wits end with worry for my son and 2 yr GC. Long story short - the relationship has broken down, they are seperated and DIL has new boyfriend (a couple actually in past 6 months). She has told my son that in future, her current BF will be picking up GC from daycare. My son knows nothing about this new man in GC life. My son has been seen lawyer and a letter will soon be sent to DIL re: law about joint guardianship and need to include my son in decisions re: welfare of GC. DIL is persisting - through series of texts - that she will do what she sees right for ‘her child’. My son is an emotional and anxious mess. How do I help him?
They sound like youngish parents. Or the mother is. Grandparents have rights to see their grandchildren and so does the father. Especially if he's on the birth certificate. I am wondering if the bf works, if he's available to pick up from daycare. Hope GC is not in a nursery all day, everyday with bf picking them up. All single parent mothers, I do believe, have a right to ask a police station for a background check on anyone they are dating, to ascertain the persons suitability to be in the family home. Cant remember what it's called. If I were grandparent I would make my services more available, ie, having child at weekends etc to keep a steady eye on the situation. Sorry I cant be any further help.