My DILs mother & father always seem to get special treatment. My DIL, son & grand-daughters always go to her parents for Christmas dinner. Even though I was allegedly in their 'Bubble' last year, they didn't invite me for dinner at Christmas, in fact not much had changed because that's what they've been doing for years. It just hurt me more because I am on my own (please, I am not having a whinge...but I assumed because I was in their 'bubble' that they would ask me to have dinner with them at Christmas). Her mother & father get to go away on holiday with them (I looked after the cat). I have just been to see my grand-daughter ( I have always been very, very generous towards her with money, clothes and treats). My GD had baked some cookies and brought some in on a plate; there were 4 pieces of cookie on the plate....2 nice big pieces and 2 small burned pieces. I was offered the plate then my GD seemed to change her mind, gave her other grand-mother one of the nice large pieces and asked me if I'd like to take mine home. I thanked her for this. My GD came back into the room with a parcel for her grand-father, (the maternal GF) and a little parcel in foil for me. When I got home I unwrapped the parcel and saw I had been given the 2 small burned pieces of cookie. I feel very upset, particularly as I had bought and paid for all the ingredients. This is yet again another example of my GD making it quite clear which one of us she prefers to the other. AIBU to decide that this GD gets no more surprise treats from me. And am I overreacting? I wouldn't mind but I have done and still do lots of things for them....childcare when the kids were little...basically all I did when I wasn't working was doing childcare. Also cooking meals for them so they have a nourishing meal when they come in from work. Whenever there have been a pile of dishes in their kitchen to wash, it's me that rolls up their sleeves and gets them done. Other grandmother far too worried about her fingernails to do such things. Why am I so upset? But I do think my GD doesn't really like me and this makes me so .
Stabbing at a school in Wales this lunchtime.