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soop's kitchen for friendly folk and precious pets.

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soop Wed 22-Mar-17 13:27:57

Here we are again...
Happy as can be
All good pals and jolly good company.

Make yourselves comfortable. I shall pop in later with a few treats.

morethan2 Wed 26-Apr-17 09:23:51

I'm not good at baking cakes.cupcake I'm rather better at eating them though. I have masses of photos of lovely children. I promise I won't post them all. I'm not a cat lover really. I do like a chat about simple everyday stuff. Can I stay

wot Wed 26-Apr-17 09:29:07

Norfolk ccottage in small village. Large garden. Partner leaving so I want to sell.

wot Wed 26-Apr-17 09:29:52

Please pm me if interested.

annsixty Wed 26-Apr-17 09:41:57

Oh wot I am sorry that the decision has been made as I don't know how you feel about it.
Best wishes for whatever happens, we are not just here for the cake and wine (hint hint) but for the difficult times as well.

wot Wed 26-Apr-17 09:50:34

Thank you. Apart from being shocked and disgusted, I'm okay. Bit worried about finances though!

wot Wed 26-Apr-17 09:52:55

Mercenary or practical? ?

Bellanonna Wed 26-Apr-17 09:53:49

You've obviously thought it through and it sounds as though you will be happier. You've often hinted about partner,s comments (not just the recent ones). Hopefully you can stay in Norfolk? All the best. Keep coming on here whenever you feel like it.

MawBroon Wed 26-Apr-17 09:54:59

{hugs}
So sorry to hear this, remember there are broad shoulders in the Kitchen if and whenever you ever need one
flowers

morethan2 Wed 26-Apr-17 10:12:23

I don't know the background to your story wot but good luck. I hope it works out for the best and you mange to sort out the finances. Money can't buy love but it certainly can make life much much easier.

wot Wed 26-Apr-17 10:21:38

I'll sign my own Valentine's card in future. Don't know why im being flippant!

Tizliz Wed 26-Apr-17 10:25:29

wot I did think last week that perhaps you were taking the wrong one to the vets - very naughty thought.

wot Wed 26-Apr-17 10:30:38

Ha ha!? I am feeling sorry for the old git though......that's me. I don't think he will be able to manage as I have EVERYTHING for him for 20 years and hes such a slob.

wot Wed 26-Apr-17 10:31:14

I have done, I meant.

annsixty Wed 26-Apr-17 10:56:27

Revenge is a dish best served cold. When he is living in his pit and wants to come back or asks for help you can tell him as politely as you feel where to go.
Seriously though I am very sad for you and hope you can find some positives from the situation and lots of happiness in the future.

MawBroon Wed 26-Apr-17 11:03:11

tizliz depends what wot had booked at the vets blush oh , on second thoughts, maybe not grin

wot Wed 26-Apr-17 11:15:07

On the one hand, I M looking forward to a clean home which only I mess up, freedom to meet someone nice, eating what I want (as in a healthier diet with veg) and tother, realising I'll soon be 67 and im nervous at night of living in the sticks. Im maybe too old to start again.

MawBroon Wed 26-Apr-17 11:18:17

You have to think "could I go on like this for another 20/30 years? Is this it, for ever?"
Only you know the answer to that so while there will be fors and against (perhaps) they don't necessarily all have equal weighting. Good luck!!

jollyg Wed 26-Apr-17 11:39:02

Where is Charley? Run off with the builder/ or being employed as snagger in chief.

Hope you are fine.

Charleygirl Wed 26-Apr-17 12:01:45

Thanks jollyg I am not that desperate- I prefer to live on my own, thanks. Tara misses the fuss.

I have kept a low profile because of my bilateral tenosynovitis all fingers and wrists from spending too much time on this machine.

Not a word since Sunday pm. He had an appointment at the local hospital on Monday so I do not know if he is at home, doing other work, admitted or dead. I had my first lie in today until 7.30am for many weeks.

The boss is coming I think next week with two guys he has recently employed to sort out all of the problems. It will take 3 of them at least a day because no room is perfect. I will let you all know which day to remain indoors because with what I have to say you will hear my dulcet tones many miles away. I must warn the GNs with whom I have coffee locally monthly- they may wish to take a day trip to France to avoid the flak. I do have heating in every room which is a major bonus.

This job started in February, it is almost May. I am 300% certain that the general feeling was that this old biddy will not notice, what does she know about anything, we will take the money and run. Luckily two have principles, one of them being the new owner.

My snagging list resembles the first few chapters of a book.

wot I do hope that Sophie is feeling better. That old git will notice the draft when he has to switch on a kettle- that is if he knows how to do that. Good luck flowers.

I am returning to hibernation- I should really stay off this machine for a week or two but that is not possible. My main problem is that I cannot write one liners.

Thanks for caring.

jollyg Wed 26-Apr-17 13:04:39

Glad to know you are still in fine fettle barring the fingers. take care and may the saga end soon.

Has tara got some new best friends, i.e builders and morsels from them.

Get well soon.

Greyduster Wed 26-Apr-17 13:11:42

Whatever happened to voice recognition software? Anyone remember that? Talk to the computer and put all the typists and WP operators out of business? RSI a thing of the past? When I was working, one of my bosses had it downloaded onto his computer at home. He always had an eye to the coming thing in tech. His wife had to correct all the stuff it misinterpreted and threatened to divorce him unless he stopped using it - which he did! Hope your hands are feeling better soon, Charley.

wot your partner sounds like an a******e of the first water, and he clearly doesn't deserve you. I hope the future holds only positives for you and Sophie.

Morethan nice to see you in the kitchen! Lovely photos!

I missed my breakfast this morning (on purpose), and was hungry about an hour ago. DH said he would make me a healthy snack. "Oh, good oh!” I thought, "how kind". He brought me a raw carrot wrapped in kitchen paper. More training needed I think..... I made myself a corned beef sandwich instead. Bloody carrot indeed!! I was tempted to deposit it somewhere painful about his person.
I have a small plum tree in my garden with a patch of bare, soft soil around it. The sparrows are having a field day dust bathing in it. They're there most days. I was going to plant it up, but maybe I'll leave it. They seem to prefer it to the bird bath. School run soon! I'll look in later.

kittylester Wed 26-Apr-17 14:16:08

Just a flying visit as I have to get to Derby to do the school run but, wot, I echo what everyone else says - good riddance. I'm sure you feel a bit funny at the moment but look on it as a big new adventure, doing your own thing. And, chunter to us if you need to. flowers

kittylester Wed 26-Apr-17 14:20:23

Did I mention DD1's new kitchen and the Island saga? The carpenter brought the new top to replace the collapsing one and had stained it completley the wrong colour. He had also been commissioned to make stools for the breakfast bar - he made the wrong ones. He was supposed to bring the correct items today while I am there but isn't!! DD rang on her way to work this morning and, from the temper she was in, I doubt she would have needed to use petrol to propel the car.

soop Wed 26-Apr-17 15:06:30

A very warm welcome to morethan2 Us lot like looking at photos of grandchildren and pets. So...keep up the good work. Matters not that you don't bake cakes. Neither do I. I am partial to eating cakes baked that contain no calories. wink

soop Wed 26-Apr-17 15:16:27

Dear wot Mixed feelings on your behalf. May I add that you have a life to live. Let go of whatever gives you pain. You will survive and You will succeed...please stay with us. You matter. flowers

kitty buggerations a plenty for your daughter. She needs lots of TLC.

Greyduster It's the thought that counts. Carrots are a very healthy option.

I've had a sore throat for about two weeks. Awoke this morning with a very inflamed roof of mouth and blotches where the tonsils used to be. Do you think it could be thrush?

Charleyg And there was I thinking that you were lolling around and supping Champagne. Dead right...we care. smile

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