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Vibrators for the over 70s

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Retired65 Wed 07-May-25 20:00:18

The one I had doesn't appear to be working. Can anyone suggest a virbrator that works and doesn't tire the hands? It would be for my own use as my husband hasn't been interested in sex for many years. I am 74.

Grannybags Thu 08-May-25 22:51:51

Impressive GrandmaKT!

GrandmaKT Thu 08-May-25 23:50:54

Grannybags

Impressive GrandmaKT!

It was just the once, not a full-time job, I hasten to add! grin

Crossstitchfan Fri 09-May-25 00:00:33

whywhywhy

What the hell? Is this some prank?

Whywhywhy would you think that?? 😀

Whiff Fri 09-May-25 07:00:31

GrandmaKT I am not ignorant and know all about clitoral stimulators. Don't insinuate I am ignorant that is insulting.

I have been widowed since I was 45 even though having total hysterectomy at 38 have no problems and at 67 not dead from the waist down . Luckily I don't need the use of lubricants or anything other than my fingers to pleasure myself.

Cambsnan Fri 09-May-25 07:06:58

Have a look at Love Honey. Discreet postal service. Enjoy

Dahliaxx Fri 09-May-25 10:38:03

Can’t believe how many prudes on this thread. I thought the point of getting older was we could finally say what we want.

The below store is female friendly, and great postal service. Don’t know if the actual store is still open - used to be woman only, and men only allowed to go in if accompanied by female partners.

sh-womenstore.com/collections/vibrators

Lelo, and womanizer make great vibes. Sylk and YES do great lube. Enjoy!

spottybook Fri 09-May-25 12:09:38

GrandmaKT. I remember that Good Housekeeping article

Nibbles44 Fri 09-May-25 18:31:03

Have a look on Chaturbate.com (an adult website) & see what others are using.

LucyAnna5 Fri 09-May-25 18:36:58

Kandinsky

I know some older people still have sexual needs - but this thread has made me feel slightly sick 🤢

And yet there are threads about constipation, UTIs, etc……

charley68 Fri 09-May-25 19:30:45

Oregano

The only thing that puts me off getting a vibrator is if one of my children were going through my things after I'd died!

I think your adult children may be happy that you knew how your body worked.

keepingquiet Fri 09-May-25 19:36:02

I think I saw a knitting pattern for one once- or was it crochet?

Whiff Fri 09-May-25 19:48:25

keepingquiet there is a supposedly pig in blanket crochet decoration ,but it looks like a foreskin in a scarf.🤣

LucyAnna there is a farting thread as well..🤣

JamesandJon33 Fri 09-May-25 19:52:16

My computer tells me Chaturbate is a scam site. Take care.

lemsip Fri 09-May-25 20:17:14

Boots pharmacy.
www.boots.com/sitesearch?searchTerm=vibrators

Retired65 Fri 09-May-25 20:33:53

Thank you for the link lemsip. I was unable to access the Chaturbate site, just as well by the sound of it.

Shinamae Fri 09-May-25 21:41:29

Give me a cup of tea and an episode of Emmerdale and I’m well pleased….🤗😜🙂‍↔️

Bobbysgirl19 Fri 09-May-25 21:48:26

Oh Whiff! Thank you for the laughs !

orly Sat 10-May-25 13:47:09

kircubbin2000

Is this a wind up?confused

...no, it's battery operated

win Sat 10-May-25 13:53:36

Astitchintime

kircubbin2000

Is this a wind up?confused

Ooh…..there’s a good idea! A wind-up vibrator……less risk of the batteries running out ‘mid session’ 😉

🤣🤣🤣👍

Lemonred Sat 10-May-25 13:55:28

That was the premise of “Frankie & Grace”, season 3 with Jayne Fonda & Lilly Tomlin. They made a vibrator for older ladies called Vybrant. Ghastly looking thing though 😂😂😂

win Sat 10-May-25 13:56:52

LucyAnna5

Kandinsky

I know some older people still have sexual needs - but this thread has made me feel slightly sick 🤢

And yet there are threads about constipation, UTIs, etc……

Don’t read it the n the problem is yours

win Sat 10-May-25 13:58:41

Shinamae

Give me a cup of tea and an episode of Emmerdale and I’m well pleased….🤗😜🙂‍↔️

You are missing out for sure x

JaneJudge Sat 10-May-25 14:00:06

you can buy them in superdrug now

Silverlady333 Sat 10-May-25 14:01:38

Can't believe the prudes on here! No doubt you are all clutching your pearls at this post. Just because women reach a certain age doesn't mean they have to give up on sexual pleasures! Retired65 'Love Honey' is good site to look at. It is a bit of an eye opener as it caters for male and female needs and for those with fetishes too. Oh and for all you pearl clutcher's I have even seen vibrators for sale in my local supermarket. Be careful you don't swoon if you spot them!

win Sat 10-May-25 14:05:15

Whitewavemark2

Bit rude

What is?