Money brings the worst out in people; better, as another poster advises, not to have any expectations of inheritance. We all know of the family upsets which were a result of fractured relationships during WW2. My mother- in- law adopted her nephew, a badly neglected 18 month- old, whose mother had been tarting around while her husband served overseas. His father subsequently married again. He and his second wife had no children. He died, leaving no provision for his son in his will. When she died she left nothing at all to her deceased husband's son, nor to the branch of the family who had saved him from a childrens' home: everything went to some wealthy cousins of the son who had spent years sucking up to her. What a way to be remembered. How could these people benefit knowing that their adopted cousin was actually in need of his rightful inheritance? I despise them.