I'm sorry if someone else has already asked this but it is 4am and I'm not going to read every post.
We're you on any type of contraception over the past couple of years (including a coil which can mask some symptoms of menopause)?
Have you seen your GP? It might be worth asking for an 'FSH' blood test which will show your levels of oestrogen and progesterone, then your doc will be able to give you an idea where you are regarding menopause.
Some women are very fortunate and go through or with few or even no symptoms but you never hear about them, it's always the rough/problematic scenarios that are aired, possibly because the ladies who have no symptoms feel guilty or ashamed to say so when there are so many others suffering.
How will the VAT cut be funded?
Keeping Dementia Sufferer Occupied

