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Black Lives Matter versus All Lives Matter

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SueDonim Sun 07-Jun-20 18:15:16

There has been much talk about the slogan ‘Black Lives Matter‘ with many people saying instead that all lives matter. I think it’s a good topic for debate and to gain understanding.

To me, saying ‘all lives matter‘ is to deny that racism exists. It denies the experience of many black people who are not treated as white people would have been. Think of the man who achieved the highest office in America. Would anyone have raised the ‘birther’ question had Barack Obama been white? Saying all lives matter also closes down debate on the issue, suggesting that the very particular problems black communities experience are no different from that of anyone else therefore we shouldn’t talk or do anything about it.

The term ‘black lives matter‘ is not saying that only black lives matter. It means that black lives matter as much as other lives, whether that is in the undue violence meted out to the black community, the discrimination they face in healthcare , employment and housing and in many, many other ways.

I’ll put a link on the next post, explaining why saying all lives matter is wrong. If you only look at one item, please watch All Plates Matter. It sums it up in two minutes. Be part of the solution and not part of the problem.

Gajahgran Fri 12-Jun-20 11:11:13

Whitewave2 BLM do call for a lot of things on their website including "We disrupt the Western prescribed nuclear family values" which is a very alien concept in a democracy.

sarahellenwhitney Fri 12-Jun-20 11:13:03

One only has to observe the media to understand why prejudice /racism flourishes. Do we need to know a persons colour ? why not young /elderly/ male/female etc .We have eyes /ears and a brain give us credit for knowing how to use them.

Anniebach Fri 12-Jun-20 11:13:06

Much Racism is taught in the home

Callistemon Fri 12-Jun-20 11:17:53

sarahellenwhitney

One only has to observe the media to understand why prejudice /racism flourishes. Do we need to know a persons colour ? why not young /elderly/ male/female etc .We have eyes /ears and a brain give us credit for knowing how to use them.

We don't need to know someone's age, whether or not they are a grandmother, have grey hair and how much their house is worth either.

Only if these things have any relevance to what is being reported.

Whitewavemark2 Fri 12-Jun-20 11:22:27

gajah yes I know and I understand what they are saying as the family values are different in different traditions.

I’m not sure how that would disrupt democracy though?

Gajahgran Fri 12-Jun-20 11:23:34

Growstuff sorry did not mean to pick on you. I don't know what the answer is but rioting and violence only leads to more violence. I don't think social media solves it either. Maybe if representatives from all sides had a forum where all these issues are discussed.

janeainsworth Fri 12-Jun-20 11:29:51

Grany Do you think it's going a bit far now with UKTV pulling the episode in Faulty Towers Don't mention the war, because of radial slurs?

Yes I do. But it wasn't just the don't-mention-the-war bit. There was an ageing colonel who was a regular character and who often would make outrageous racist remarks too.

The point is the even at the time the show was broadcast viewers knew that the racism was wrong, and that by introducing it into the show via the ridiculous colonel character, John Cleese and Connie Booth were actually calling out racism and acknowledging, by poking fun at the colonel, that his racism wasn't acceptable.

I find it rather strange that honestly confronting racism is censored, whereas violence in many forms is tolerated and even glorified.

Gajahgran Fri 12-Jun-20 11:39:01

Whitewavemark2 I do understand that family values are different in other cultures but disrupting family values sounds a very sinister concept to me.

blondenana Fri 12-Jun-20 11:40:30

Paddyanne Jimmy Savile lived in the town i live in and as soon as what he was really like came out, a street named after him was renamed, same with others here connected with him, removed from plaques etc
Those statues and street names should really in my, and others opinions, serve as a reminder of how the future should be
We can't rewrite history. and blank it out,how will the future generations ever learn what was bad as well as what was good in the past
I also think taking programmes off air because of all this is ridiculous, taking peoples choice away
There is an off button on all TVs,
I know this is mainly the BBC but it's just madness,
Don't other peoples lives matter,it seems not

blondenana Fri 12-Jun-20 11:42:19

Oh and by the way i am not racist ,i have a black ex daughter in law and grandson,

Callistemon Fri 12-Jun-20 11:49:08

Gajahgran

Whitewavemark2 I do understand that family values are different in other cultures but disrupting family values sounds a very sinister concept to me.

I don't understand this as family values are as strong, if not stronger, in different cultures.

Diane Abbott was criticised for her comment
"West Indian mothers will go to the wall for their children".
She was criticised because people said it implied that mothers from other cultures may not do the same.

Racism exists in other cultures too.
We know a young couple where this has caused much distress because he is white and she is Indian; her parents have disowned her. His parents have welcomed her with open arms.

Gajahgran Fri 12-Jun-20 11:53:35

Callistemon I was referring to my quote from the BLM website which WWM2 referred to. I very much believe that family values are strong in other cultures.

Tooting29 Fri 12-Jun-20 11:56:23

Why does this threads need to descend into finger pointing like so many others. When all the slavery related statues are taken down, when all the protests are over, when the news moves to a different story, when the twitterati find something else to tweet about, then what. Will injustice have been well served. Until we stop labelling people black white coloured etc and just refer to them as people we can perhaps make a start. History is littered with inhumanity and injustice and the sad reality is that the human race does not learn from it and continues to pit one against the other.

Gajahgran Fri 12-Jun-20 11:57:59

Callistemon the BLM website states they want to disrupt the Western nuclear family.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 12-Jun-20 11:58:40

I have just watched a London scene......Churchill's statue completely encased, the Cenotaph boarded half way up. Surely theuseless London Mayor should have found a way to protect not hide these London Landmarks?

Sadiq Khan's and MSM rhetoric is not helping, instead of calming the situation prior to the proposed illegal under Covid-19 guidelines protests, they are fanning the flames of unrest

dayvidg Fri 12-Jun-20 11:58:52

Don't fall for the hype - too many people are trying to promote racial disharmony www.facebook.com/thehodgetwins/videos/676224299590951

EllanVannin Fri 12-Jun-20 12:07:17

There'll be anarchy before long. What with this and the state of the economy things are bubbling ready to surface.

MsSafina Fri 12-Jun-20 12:17:42

BLM is a far left Marxist organisation whose aims have been rejected by the former Communist bloc when the wall fell in 1989 and again here when voters rejected Corbyn in December. Read their manifesto. It contains all the tired old tropes of the Communist Manifesto. Censoring history, comedy and damaging works of art has already been done during the Cultural Revolution under Mao. Only naive, foolish young people with no knowledge of the terrible Communist dictatorships are taken in by this nonsense.

Anniebach Fri 12-Jun-20 12:42:16

Interesting, Baden Powell spoke out against communism .

Boarding up the Cenotaph ? that will cause much anger ,

thank heaven they can’t get into Westminster Abbey , the tomb of the Unknown Soldier could be on their hit list.

newnanny Fri 12-Jun-20 12:45:24

I prefer the saying black lives matter too. To me just saying BLM implies other lived don't matter. I take as I find I look at behaviour not race or colour.

Statistically more black people get stabbed, but more black people carry knives and are charged with this. We cannot forget black culture plays a part in it too.

When I was secondary school teacher in area of very mixed ethnicities for over 25 years, every year several black students brought knives to school. When challenged about why, they often said it is our culture miss.

I also noticed when a group children of various races all got in trouble got the same thing or wanted to breaks school rule on something black students often tried using race card. I am probably not explaining it erll. I will give example. In my Year 11 tutor group students often tried to get permission to miss school. School rules were very clear only 1 day absence for wedding or funeral. 1 boy brought me letter stating he needed 3 weeks off school to attend a wedding in West Indies. I wrote back to parent and told her no against school rules, child cannot possibly miss 3 weeks school. Her reply accusing me of racism for not allowing her child to go for 3 weeks for wedding she said the cost of whole family traveling to WI to attend was very high and so needed 3 weeks to justify the cost. I wrote back again assuring her it was not racism but school policy applied to all children. I was Head of Year 11 att. She then wrote to Her teacher accusing me of racism, and also picking on her child. I never picked on any children, just rule breaking behaviour. She complained I told her child off for lateness, was not understanding when he got into trouble with other teachers got lack of homework bring handed in and I kept him in at break more often than others. Yes that would be because he has to catch up missing homework other children have done at home in own time. He also got less positive reference as lateness had to be included. That is not racism it is treating all the children the same. On rate my teacher website I noticed this child said I was racist. His perspective of racism is very different to mine. I can't help wondering if other black people also have distorted definitions of racism.

I am not racist but do believe if rules exist they should be applied to all regardless of race or colour or gender. Too many black people think rules should not or do not apply to them. I saw this year after year in school. Every time black children got pulled up on rules they cried racism.

Summerlove Fri 12-Jun-20 12:49:07

Grany

Do you think it's going a bit far now with UKTV pulling the episode in Faulty Towers Don't mention the war, because of radial slurs ?

And Gone With The Wind Mammy was the first black woman to receive an oscar ?

And other comedy shows.

People are seriously worried that their lives matter less, and that they might be killed just for the colour of their skin.

You are worried about comedy shows.

What is wrong with this picture?

Grany Fri 12-Jun-20 12:49:13

I don't think Corbyn is a communist He is a socialist. And slandered and misrepresented attacked in the press for four years. The Establishment millionaires billionaires don't want socialism they want to keep the rubbish government we have, for the time being.

Callistemon Fri 12-Jun-20 13:02:05

Gajahgran

Callistemon I was referring to my quote from the BLM website which WWM2 referred to. I very much believe that family values are strong in other cultures.

Yes, I realise that.

It sounds like rather an anarchist aim to me.

Tooting29 Fri 12-Jun-20 13:13:13

newnanny. your story resonates. My sister a teacher for over 35 years had a similar experience. A student of hers failed to hand in a project on time despite previous reminders and subsequently did not attain a mark that he should have. The parents then pitched up at the school to complain. During the course of the meeting she was accused of being racist in her dealing with the student, but stood her ground. She was left high and dry by a PC headteacher who failed to support her and thus began her disillusionment with education. In this woke and PC age it is easy to be put on the back foot when race is brought onto the agenda in circumstances where it isn't necessarily the issue.

Gajahgran Fri 12-Jun-20 13:13:30

Callistemon yes I agree. There is a lot on the BLM website I find concerning.