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The new rules for coronavirus - how will it affect your family?

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 09-Sept-20 15:45:39

We've been asked to comment on this for the media and would love to know how you are personally affected? Do they new rules mean you will be seeing less of your family and grandchildren? Are you worried the restrictions will get tighter?
Thank you smile

Riverwalk Thu 10-Sept-20 10:03:30

For those asking about public transport - this is not affected by the new law. The law applies to social/family groupings as this is where the recent spikes are said to have occurred.

Duvetdiva Thu 10-Sept-20 10:03:45

Probably like the majority of folk on this website we’ve been sensible throughout this unsettling period of time so it upsets me that we are now suffering this new rule of six.
I feel insulted that I’m treated as though I have little common sense.
It would be helpful to know the sources of the increased spreading of the virus then stricter rules could be directed there instead.

CrazyGrandma2 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:07:20

Furret spot on! We will be in the same position as you. It would be easier to stomach if I had even the smallest amount of confidence in the government. Never mind we always have his moonshot to look forward to!

CrazyGrandma2 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:08:12

Duvetdiva I also completely agree with you.

Nannan2 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:08:12

It will mean i cant see most of my AC & their families when i was just starting to feel safe enough to try- as theres 6 already in eldest sons house(2adults 4kids, as had new addition this yr,whom ive only seen once!) And theres 5 in eldest DD home but my son would have to wait in car, if i went to visit her.its very restricting on large families, if theyre not the ones you share a house with.There's me& my 2 youngest sons in our house(17&21) but if we visited other of my AC, we cant all 3 go in together!

Mal44 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:08:36

We have followed the rules but will find this “6 only”rule difficult as we have two married daughters and one teenage grandson.It will be hard not to be able to see them all together.However it is now a criminal offence to exceed 6 so we will have to see them separately.Hopefully,if we all follow the rules they may be relaxed before Christmas.

Nannan2 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:11:14

Haven't they realised the spikes are in 10-19 year olds mostly as thats the ages of people they've just sent back to schools&colleges?

Noreen3 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:11:22

I was wondering about buses too EllanVannin.We can't meet up in more than 6 family in a group,but we sit on a bus with strangers.
I was looking forward to a keep fit group I was going to starting up again.We met on the park on monday to talk about it,now we can't even do that,good thing we met this week,while we still could.This is all supposed to be about young people,hope they all obey the rules,I doubt it

Princesspickles Thu 10-Sept-20 10:13:21

We live in Wales where rules differ. Our 5 Adult Children and our beloved Grandchildren live in England, Australia and Ireland . We have managed recently to catch up with some of them by sticking to the rules but we still cannot see all of them sadly. The new rules in England will mean that we can see less of the family If we visit them but not if they come to us ( at the moment). We do not want to break any rules most of all we do not want to get Covid or be responsible for its spread so we just have to deal with it. We have also sold our house in order to move closer to some of the children but not sure it will help!?

HHBBNN54 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:14:41

wont affect me as I very rarely meet up with 2 other people

Nannieannie69 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:14:41

We are celebrating my son's birthday on Sunday - 8 of us (including children) at a local restaurant. This will be out first jaunt as a family since February and, clearly now, our last for the foreseeable future. As my daughter said, if the rule had come in any earlier, two of us would have had to be "uninvited"! I do understand the need for something to be done but it is certainly making life more difficult!??

Riverwalk Thu 10-Sept-20 10:18:28

Noreen3

I was wondering about buses too EllanVannin.We can't meet up in more than 6 family in a group,but we sit on a bus with strangers.
I was looking forward to a keep fit group I was going to starting up again.We met on the park on monday to talk about it,now we can't even do that,good thing we met this week,while we still could.This is all supposed to be about young people,hope they all obey the rules,I doubt it

As I understand things, organised sports are exempted as long as they're Covid compliant.

Nannan2 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:19:51

Theres a slighter uprise in under tens spike but the year 6 got sent back to school first and followed by kids with exam years soon,year 10's- in june/july- now colleges (age 16- 19) have been back since 2nd sept, and yes its on the rise already!

Grandad1943 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:21:08

It is being stated that the major cause of the figures increasing once again for Covid-19 is infection between family groups and the socialising of young people.

However, the vast majority of the above groups are of working age, and with that there comes, as the numbers rise, an ever-increasing chance of employees carrying the infection into their places of work.

Should the above scenario bring about the closure of Britain's very large food distribution centres, food processors or the road transport industry then this nation could really find itself with very many major problems.

Therefore those that are now complaining that they will not be able to get to see their families all together once again, or socialise in larger groups should consider the above and contemplate how they can help avoid that situation rather than just moan in regard to what prevents then personally carrying out what they wish.

Nannan2 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:23:44

Is a 'keep fit' group classed as an actual 'sport' though? I assumed they referred to sporting clubs, running, football, etc.

Gwenisgreat1 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:23:49

If they count 2 small children as one adult, then It won't make much difference to me, although my DD usually has us all, including her DH's family round at Christmas. Obviously that will stop!

chattykathy Thu 10-Sept-20 10:24:07

I'm glad the government have acted in a timely manner for once. I do think they could have said two households as this rule of six excludes those of us who luckily still have spouses but the AC have families of 5 or more. My DH have exactly the same risk, we're almost joined at the hip so it wouldn't make a difference

mamaa Thu 10-Sept-20 10:24:52

Just come across this on daily gov alert (which I get via email) useful info on what we can and cannot do from Monday. Hope its useful for anyone who like me needed more clarification.
www.gov.uk/government/publications/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do

Lizj Thu 10-Sept-20 10:25:09

It’s my 70th birthday next Friday. Due to Covid all our plans for a holiday abroad were scrapped and reduced to a BBQ in the garden for my closest family - my children and their families and my sister and her children. 12 in total. Now that ruined too. I feel it’s very unfair as we’ve all stuck closely to the rules for six months and now my birthday is in ruins.

esgt1967 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:25:49

Discodancer1975, I think you should go and have a great time. I appreciate we "should" abide by the rules but sometimes we have to put our family's health and wellbeing first, especially in this instance where the plus one is an infant - I think it's ridiculous!

MissAdventure Thu 10-Sept-20 10:28:59

We have to put everyone's health and wellbeing first.

hicaz46 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:29:56

In general (but I accept not always) we are the generation who do stick with the rules, so we will suck it up and do as requested. There are anomalies for lots of us, I have one Son with 5 members of family, who we cannot visit and one Daughter with 4 members of family who we can see. DD lives at least an hour and a half away and DS 3 hours away so we don’t see him as I do not want to stay in a hotel yet and cannot do the round trip in one day. We all have to make sacrifices at this difficult time, but it does seem that older people are sacrificing most.

Nannan2 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:31:01

My boys dont 'socialise', and yet, youngest,17 has had to return to college, at beginning of month, He's now been sick for 3days, and 'fluey' despite wearing his mask constantly& doing hands thoroughly as instructed by college, so he is absent again! So yes i think it IS as they're being forced to return to schools&colleges.

SillyNanny321 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:32:10

This will get worse! A friend & I were saying this yesterday! Another Lockdown is imminent no matter what Government says! This will affect older people, yes I am one, more this time! It seems that we will be dead before seeing our Grandchildren again if the rules get much tougher! Why are none of the idiots out drinking every night ignoring social distancing, the idiots going to parties & raves & those refusing to wear masks not punished? Why pick on those who obey the rules? Why - because we are all an easy target! Doesnt matter though as one young man said, if the old people die it will make more room! Rant over, sorry but you did ask ?

Nannan2 Thu 10-Sept-20 10:34:01

Are you a loner Grandad1943?hmm