Nanatoone
Cossy, what you describe is unheard of in this school. As to being unsympathetic and non empathetic I find that ridiculous. I am making the point that people who are not sick and are pretending to be ill are causing issues. Not those with genuine illnesses. Try not to read into my words that which I do not mean. I am a migraine sufferer and know what it’s like, I have never once pretended to have one but if some of them have them as often as claim, they really should see a doctor. I have preventers and medications to help when I have one, I have learnt to live with it. It’s hard to talk to people who have a set idea of how people are just because of how they themselves are. Please do not insult my dedicated and wonderful daughter, she’s a fantastic teacher and has to manage this situation daily. It’s not easy and the time wasters need to stop. Why would you not want the best for the the next generation?
I haven’t insulted you or your daughter, we clearly need to agree to disagree.
My grandfather, Aunt and cousin were all teachers, as is my daughter, where have I said I do not “want the best for the next generation” Do you, or have you, ever worked in a school? I was involved in schools locally as I was not only deputy chair of two governing bodies I was also chair of Finance and HR governing body at a large Primary School and was actually involved in meeting with both teaching assistants and teachers re sickness. I also worked within schools as part of my job at one point. I have a good clear understanding of schools and their processes and policies.
I would respectfully suggest that if you don’t work in your daughters school or any school you’ll not be too familiar or know all their policies or processes.
I feel sorry for anyone, including you and your daughter, who suffers from any any debilitating conditions such as migraines. I too have some long term conditions, I managed them as best as I could, but still had s fair amount of time off sick and had to take early retirement. We all manage our health differently, what one person can deal with, another cannot. Your posts do come across as completely lacking in empathy and I make no apology for this, you have no idea what is wrong with the staff at your daughter’s job, or whether “they are making up being sick”, and one can only assume you gain all your intel second hand from your daughter, who clearly appears to complain a lot about her colleagues!