wow, this is a risky forum to step into !
I cannot see why using guys for everyone is anti-feminist.
I cannot see any problem with it. quite like it.
as for me and x went to... have you noticed the converse which annoys me slightly, people who say,
thank you for the gifts you gave to my wife and I.
I stopped going to a church when I heard the new curate say this. silly, I know, but..
one that I noticed recently and it does annoy me, eg, I cant stand that plant, I shall have to get rid. full stop.
instead of get rid of it.
I thought it was a conscious affectation to reference ?Yiddish forms of speech.
but I've noticed more and more people doing it, and one whom I asked about it, said she'd always said it.
ive heard her speaking for 7 yrs but only heard it recently. where/ why / what ? anyone.