Totally devastated. My husband who has been staying at his parents for since October because he didn't want to live with my daughter, partner and baby while they saved for a deposit, has been having an affair.
We were fine, still spent time together etc. He said he didn't want to spend Xmas here as he'd had a falling out with son in law when he was drunk one night and sent ranty texts.
Anyway. 22nd of December I called him and it went straight to an international dial code - he had text during day to say he was working etc. He called and claimed last minute business friends had invited him to France. And I believed him!
He called and text a lot and all fine.
But January 2nd I found out he not only has been sleeping with someone else for a month but he asked her to marry him and she's pregnant.
I'm totally devastated at 54 to be met with all this - having had 4 miscarriages ( with my ex husband).
I've spoken at length with the other woman who is not keeping the baby now.
He had told her he's been single 3 years. And also told his business colleagues he is divorced. They work in the same line of business.
Nights I assumed he was at his parents he was with her.
I don't know how to continue to live with all this. How to deal with the level of deception I feel totally broken.
Parents-in-Law. What do/did you call them?
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