MEN ! why are they mostly like this ..is it just men of a certain age, who might have been brought up by their mother to expect everything to be done for them by their 'significant other' (I hate that expression !)..mine is adapt at playing one against the other At the moment he is in a care home whilst I am in the UK ...however, he suffered chest pain
yesterday and the doctor was called and wanted him t go to hospital ...he refused ! Then my friend went to visit hum and he said 'I wish I could go to hospital they don't ook after me here and they do there'......then he complains about the doctor, but tells my friend our doctor is marvellous ...and so it goes on ! He tells me I have abandoned him (I pick him up on Friday to go home !) and on the other when he speaks to me again he tells me to stay here and not come back......Personally I DO NOT want to come back ...the minute he is indoors again he will start shouting at me and telling me I am useless.......he has no empathy when I am ill and quite frankly I am dreading it ! AIBU ? When I have had (several) ops inhospital he tells me I am making it up and there is nothing wrong with me and to get on with it ! I shall tell him the same !