I have been with my partner for over 12 years. We are very different people and over the years that's become increasingly apparent. He very much takes care of himself for example I will get in from work and he is already cooking his meal, or even eating it. There will be no sign of a meal for me or my daughter. He plays a very limited role in her life. I don't feel I can rely on him. When I ask for help, which is rare, I often get no. I have had two health scares recently, the first he knew about but didn't wish me luck when I went for my tests, didn't offer to come with me and never enquired about the result. I never bothered telling him about the second as there was no point. I feel like we are together but living separate lives. I worry I'm chasing a dream. Perhaps this is normal? But I feel so lonely and sad. Surely a relationship is caring for each other. I'm so close to leaving.
Parents-in-Law. What do/did you call them?