Here in Switzerland, all can become a member of EXIT - and request help if ever they need to. This is very carefully monitored - and people can choose to die in their own home, in their own bed or favourite armchair, surrounded by their family if they choose, with their favourite music on, or whatever. The volunteers who are trained to help always visit the person first, and insist on talking to them ON THEIR OWN - and are trained to ask all the necessary questions and read any sign of hesitation or coercion. Once they are totally sure that assisted dying is absolutely what they want, they will agree on a date in the near future, and explain exactly the procedure. if the volunteer perceives any hesitation, they say they will come and discuss it again in a few days, and so on.
On the day agreed, the volunteer will again speak to the person on their own - and again assess any sign of hesitation or coersion - and will only go ahead if they are totally sure that this is truly what is wanted- and then go ahead with the procedure- and stay afterwards to help the family with their grief. I feel truly privileged that this is available to me, and I've now been member for 4 years. I am in excellent health and have never ever harboured any suicide thought, as I love life and my family too much - but for me it is the best insurance policy I could ever buy (and the cost for membership is very small btw) - it is a wonderful relief to know that if ever I am struck with a terrible disease that will rob me of all dignity and mean that I would suffer a terribly painful death, suffocating and unable to breathe or move - help will be there for me.
It is tragic that people in the UK have to rely on Dignitas - and have as only choice to come and die in a concrete apartment on an industrial estate- away from the comforts of home, and often family, due to cost. Tragic beyond belief. I am very tolerant of people who are religious- but will NEVER EVER ACCEPT THAT THEY DICTATE HOW I LIVE - AND MORE IMPORTANTLY HOW I DIE. It is none of their ****** business!