This has been an amazing and interesting discussion. It is clear, that for some, religion or faith is a support and a driving force to live a good life. It is possible to lead a good a moral life without any religion, and be happy that our time is limited, make the most of it and be the best person you can be. Not for any hope of an afterlife, but for joy and happiness and trying to bring some to others. Throughout my life I have met good people with a faith, and bad people with a faith. And some wicked people with or without.
When people suffer it should not be thought of as a test. Historically poor people have been kept down and oppressed in the name of religion, while others have got rich and powerful in the name of religion.And also by witholding of education and reading.The churches had the knowledge and the power to control society. It is not the religion that is the problem, it is the way human beings interpret it for their own ends. When faith starts to the thought of as "right" instead of simply a personal view, we get intolerance and bigotry. There is no right, we make our own story, let our children thrive and grow in their own story, not the one we happen to subscribe to. Oh and yes, Stephen Fry could probably have chosen a more tolerant honeymoon venue. As Dave Allen would say "May your God go with you"
Maybe the way forward is not to tell people what we do or don't believe, but to listen to them.