As an agnostic

I hope that wasn't advertising - it was just to demonstrate how both physical/social and spiritual needs can be met in the same building!

As a Unitarian of the Humanist kind I am in agreement with Cindersdad the original poster. Unitarians use not only The Bible for inspiration but also reputable texts from other religions and secular sources.

Churches are open to the communities . A house service is cosy but I like the fellowship in church with people I know and don’t know. I like the silence too, and the knowledge many before me and hopefully many to come after me will experience this . I want to take communion at the alter with others .

There is silence in the reading room in the library , not the same as the peace in church, not spiritual .

It’s wonderful to read about the community social events and cafes etc in old church building where applicable. It reminds me of a fantastic old city church not too far from where I live. I’m sure it’s been understood the points I raised were to do with the time when people are gathered in the church immediately before a sermon. It’s then I feel it’s only respectful to show a degree of silence as the preacher walks in and for a few minutes before. My wonderful old minister requested silence in the church before a sermon. People tended to whisper if there were things they felt like speaking about and that was accepted. I miss him so much but I’m sure at some stage in life I’ll find another church but I don’t think it will be until our final house move when we downsize.The local church will definitely be high on my priority list when selecting where.

I don’t know your reasons for not getting ‘out and about’ Anniebach and I won’t pry. I do hope you will soon manage to get back to the fellowship of your church soon,even if you have to request help to get there and back.