Anyone who is blaming soop for anything but kindness on Gransnet can only be doing it out of jealousy. They resent the fact that she is universally liked by all but those confirmed in permanent sourness. She logged out early yesterday afternoon because she was so "ruffled". I told her to have a pleasant evening and to leave the sillies to stew in their own sour juice.
It's more than silliness though; it's mean-mindedness. It was perfectly clear right at the start that the Soop Kitchen was a retreat from argy-bargy for soop herself and anyone who wanted to join her in a restful, unruffling place. If it's not what you're looking for on Gransnet (and most of the time, it's not a place where I wish to leave comments, though I often dip in to have a wee read), then there are plenty of other threads, and you can make more yourself. Leave soop and her kitchen alone. Niggling in a sour and jealous way about it is bullying in its effect.