One son left his partner of many years and went off with someone new and a few years ago stopped correspondence, visits etc. Last Autumn my husband suggested we get our wills rewritten and leave this son off and said we would do that after Christmas. Well I had a heart attack and needed a triple bypass and whilst I was in hospital my husband caught Pneumonia and died in January. The estranged son didn’t even come to his Father’s funeral although another son kept him informed. Its now nearly 6 months and I feel I aught to have my will written as Husband wanted but I’m torn. He’s still my son. I am going to write in a nephew who has been amazing in his help and support. What should I do about estranged son?
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