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CariGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 09-Mar-20 09:09:07

Are you a longtime lurker? Love reading our threads but have never actually posted yourself? Then this is the week for you!

Simply say hello here, or post on one of our special lurkers’ week threads (which will all be listed here over the course of the week) and you could win one of our special prizes just for joining the fun.

What are the prizes, you ask? WELL <drumroll> we have an assortment of glorious goodies, from a limited-edition collection from Look Fabulous Forever, to a £50 voucher from the gorgeous jewellery retailer Merci Maman, from brilliant board games from John Adams to champagne glasses from Prezzybox and a year's supply of ebooks from Boldwood Books - and more! (Did we mention the money-can’t-buy, limited-edition Gransnet tea towels?!)

Posting is quick and easy - but if you have any questions, head over to our handy ‘getting started’ guide. This week we will also be running tips on how to get the most out of the site - and if you can't yet tell your DIL from your SIL, here's a handy guide to Gransnet acronyms.

Regular posters, fear not...as if we would leave you out of the fun. Seasoned gransnetters who extend the hand of friendship to newbies will also have their names put in the hat, just for being lovely people.

So welcome all. Don't be shy! Do post!

Say hello. Tell us what you like about Gransnet and join our warm and wonderful community. Happy posting!

GNHQ

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And if you enjoy the site but haven't yet joined (it's totally free), you can do so here.

brawlass Mon 09-Mar-20 16:37:43

I'm definitely a lurker, an old one, and have only posted a few times but will try to input more. Have two teenage grandchildren.

stillaspringchicken Mon 09-Mar-20 16:51:10

I'm a bit of a lurker, though I have commented on a couple of posts.
Confession time - I'm not a Gran at all (my kids are still in their student years) but I'm way too old for Mumsnet and find the posts here much more interesting!

delia170169 Mon 09-Mar-20 16:51:37

Oops forgot to add that I am a lurker ??

Bernice123 Mon 09-Mar-20 16:54:36

I am a daily lurker and love sitting down to Gransnet everyday when I get home from work around 4pm while I’m enjoying my afternoon cuppa. I joined when my first granddaughter was born over 6 years ago and now I have 3 granddaughters of 6, 3 and 18 months. I rarely post but I love the daily threads. Apart from my 2 adult sons and 1 daughter I am blessed with 2 amazing loving daughters in law who I love to bits. Looking forward to posting more on here

petalmoore Mon 09-Mar-20 16:59:35

@Marpau are your Dgs really dogs, as some have suggested, or small boys? Do tell!

(I mainly lurk, but do occasionally post, and have three grandchildren aged 7, 5 and 3, who have just moved to New Zealand. The eldest and youngest are boys and the middle one is a girl. We keep in touch via Portal TV using WhatsApp, since I’m disabled and can’t afford travel insurance I live in the Scottish Borders).

joanie48 Mon 09-Mar-20 17:03:12

Hi all, I admit I am a lurker! I look at gransnet every day and it’s inspiring. Such common sense and good advice!

dragonfly63 Mon 09-Mar-20 17:13:13

I’m a mainly a lurker with the occasional comment or competition entry. A really useful site with lots of commen sense.

Liz53 Mon 09-Mar-20 17:18:59

Does anyone have the same problem. My mother law expects to be picked up by my OH and to have a cooked tea every night. She complains if we choose to go away for for a few days. She has 3 other sons and DIL’s and is always praising them for what little they do.. now is the time my OH and I would like to have time to do things together(just to go for a ride without thinking we have to be back by a certain time would good

maisie46 Mon 09-Mar-20 17:26:18

Hi, I'm a daily lurker since returning from living in Spain for ten years. So much good advice on here plus lots of giggles too! I love the community spirit but am rather shy in posting. Must do better!

littleowl Mon 09-Mar-20 17:36:32

I am a lurker but love the threads. I get the daily email and it helps me keep up to date with what people are thinking.

Pittcity Mon 09-Mar-20 17:40:07

Liz53 please start a new thread about your problem as it may get lost on this one.

nannyof4 Mon 09-Mar-20 17:47:14

I am also a lurker,although have posted a few times but prefer to read and not join in.

annsixty Mon 09-Mar-20 17:47:28

I, along with many others, have had so much help at times of extreme stress, so lurkers, join in and either help others or get help yourself.

Dannydog1 Mon 09-Mar-20 17:52:04

I’m a lurker as well, very , very occasionally posted

CherryCezzy Mon 09-Mar-20 17:52:53

I have lurked as a reader since the Summer of last year. I didn't discover the site until then. I started reading when I was having breast cancer treatment; clear at the moment grin. I didn't pluck up the courage to join until 3rd March. I have made several posts since then so I don't know whether I can be considered to be a lurker now ? I may just be a newbie.

Pinkypoo Mon 09-Mar-20 17:54:49

Hi, I’m a lurker, sorry to say! No grandkids yet but hopefully one day, son with mental health issues lives with us and also have two daughters. Love to read the posts and can tell some of the regulars are quite witty x

Suki70 Mon 09-Mar-20 18:04:47

Another lurker here , although I have posted a few times, usually when someone has asked for advice about a health problem that I have experienced myself. However I have made a good friend through the forum and we set up local meetings of gransnetters.

Wheniwasyourage Mon 09-Mar-20 18:14:54

Welcome to all newbies and lurkers. Like others, I'm sure, I go through phases of lurking and regular posting, and have done so since joining at the beginning, back when we were all a lot younger than we are now grin

To add to what grannyactivist said, please be aware that we have all been through the experience of posting and getting no replies at all, so that we are convinced that we have killed the thread! Sometimes that thread will be resurrected months later, so don't give up hope!

Ellie Anne Mon 09-Mar-20 18:35:24

I’ve posted a couple of times but have been put of by some harsh responses.
My first single was The first time by Adam Faith

Bbbface Mon 09-Mar-20 18:38:30

Hi

Happy to welcome anyone and everyone!!

Tempest Mon 09-Mar-20 18:50:28

Hi I'm a lurker, by the time I've read all the replies everything that I want to say has been said by someone else.

jeapurs54 Mon 09-Mar-20 18:53:18

I love Gransnet, it's a place of useful information. Tips on anything. Fashion, Places to visit, Health, Family worries, clothing, and anything else that springs to mind also general hints and tips. It's like having a good friend to discuss anything with, far better than a magazine, it's something you can discuss that might be more sensitive or embarrasing but can discuss on Gransnet without embarrassment and can get answers.

heidimargaret Mon 09-Mar-20 18:54:45

I have posted once or twice before but have never mentioned myself. I live with my husband who has Primary progressive Multiple Sclerosis. He is paralysed but nature has left him the use of his left hand so he can use computer and tv controls. We hace a dog for the disabled. She is a blessing. Our first one was with my husband from early days and they have in their own way enhanced his life. We have two carers four times a day such a blessing as for many years I was his sole carer and worked as well. I still say we have a blessed life.

LuckyFour Mon 09-Mar-20 19:27:16

Welcome all new gransnet posters. I don't post as often as others but when I do it is to try to offer ideas or help to another gran. We all have ups and downs in our lives but to hear from someone who has gone through something similar and come out the other side can be very helpful. Gransnet grans are wonderful, always willing to give advice and it's easy to be completely honest on here so it's not necessary to beat around the bush.

Chookmama Mon 09-Mar-20 19:40:45

I’m a regular lurker (most days). Tried to post once but I don’t think I did it right! Not actually a gran as neither DD or DS seem willing to produce offspring, but who knows maybe one day!