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what to wear at 60 plus?

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pennyb Wed 04-May-16 13:54:06

I am about to turn 60. It feels like a landmark. My 50s sort of came and went without me really noticing but I do feel different now. Not old I hasten to add. Maybe more grown up. Anyway I think perhaps it's time to take stock and revise my style a bit. I've pretty much carried on wearing the things I have always done but suddenly feel a bit mutton dressed as lamb. I'd like to update my look to reflect my age but without going old or frumpy. Where do I start? (Did I mention I hate shopping?!)

Elegran Sun 08-May-16 20:28:33

but two words, not run into one.

Jalima Sun 08-May-16 20:39:25

Oh, I looked it up and thought it was spelt as one blush

Two words, and the fine lady apparently refers to Queen Elizabeth the First.
Or someone's great-granny as they would have you believe hmm

www.rhymes.org.uk/ride_a_cock_horse.htm

GandTea Sun 08-May-16 20:40:26

A 'cock-horse' is a child's toy, a horse's head on a stick.

jinglbellsfrocks Sun 08-May-16 20:43:31

I like the Queen Elizabeth version best.

Jalima Sun 08-May-16 20:51:12

I thought a Cock horse was a stallion (may be wrong)
and the child's toy was something that was probably thought up because of the nursery rhyme.

Elegran Sun 08-May-16 21:02:28

"Banbury was situated at the top of a steep hill and in order to help carriages up the steep incline a white cock horse (a large stallion) was made available by the town's council to help with this task." Found this at forums.digitalspy.co.uk/showthread.php?t=1595627 but the poster had it as a quote without saying where from.

However, a cock horse is obviously a stallion (and the reverse is true - a stallion is obviously a cock horse shock) The toddler riding his hobbyhorse would have hopes of one day owning a big hunter of his own. They weren't so coy about things in times past.

Jalima Sun 08-May-16 21:15:00

Call a spade a spade
(or a bloody shovel as the Australians would say)

Deedaa Sun 08-May-16 21:15:58

One fail safe rule I have for buying clothes is to look carefully at the ones I'm trying on, then to look at myself in the clothes I came in wearing, and then decide if the new ones look better. An awful lot of the time they don't and I harden my heart and leave them.

whitewave Sun 08-May-16 21:18:16

Nothing I try on looks any good at the ultimate best it isn't bad

winifred01 Sun 08-May-16 21:18:46

I agree about cover of Good Housekeeping, Fern Britton looks as though she has dressed from the dressing up box my children used to play with.

Jalima Sun 08-May-16 21:19:07

Me too, ww

I want longer jackets, but they all end mid-tummy these days.

Jalima Sun 08-May-16 21:22:33

My DGD look sweet for special occasions in those dresses or skirts with those frilly underskirts showing at the bottom.
Not a good look for a woman of 58 surely?

Anya Sun 08-May-16 21:47:21

Deedaa that's what I do too smile

But what looks good from the front doesn't always look good from the back and I've often had to 'harden my heart' too, when something that initially got a 'Yes!' is seen from the back in those horribly truthful useful mirrors hmm

Maggiemaybe Mon 09-May-16 08:00:15

I've just had a peek at Fern in her frilly floral frock, Jamila. She looks stunning in the photo, but I can only imagine how I'd look in that outfit without the help of the stylist and a bit of photoshopping. As if I'd just escaped from somewhere, I suspect grin
www.goodhousekeeping.co.uk/lifestyle/gh-women-celebrity-interviews/fern-britton-june-2016-good-housekeeping-cover-star

Maggiemaybe Mon 09-May-16 08:05:16

Jalima, not Jamila. And definitely not what my spellchecker wants you to be, which is Kalimantan confused grin

Pittcity Mon 09-May-16 08:19:20

I browsed the magazine rack in Wilkos on Saturday to see what she was wearing and saw another cover with the celebrity (can't remember who) wearing the exact same jacket with jeans. Do they only have one jacket?

trisher Mon 09-May-16 08:36:27

Fern looks good, but you know she couldn't move about and still look good. Is it just me or does it look as if someone has just stuffed that net petticoat up the front of her dress-bit like a cushion?

gettingonabit Mon 09-May-16 10:02:29

Omg! That dress is awful and she's been photoshopped to buggery. Her head doesn't seem to match her bodyhmm.

I like the jacket though (I can't seem to wear bikers and I'm not quite sure why...).

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 09-May-16 10:06:43

Is it this one? It's so pretty. Would be lovely for a summer ball.

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 09-May-16 10:08:39

Can't be that one. No jacket.

Maggiemaybe Mon 09-May-16 10:15:38

This one.

whitewave Mon 09-May-16 10:25:19

She is much thinner than she used to be. Did she have a gastric band fitted?

gettingonabit Mon 09-May-16 13:30:09

Yes, she did have a gastric band, I think. Wasn't there some controversy about her having lost weight, promoted a diet and then found to have lost it by means of surgery?
Or was that someone else?

Jalima Mon 09-May-16 15:24:14

Maggiemaybe Kalimantan
You make me sound like a Greek olive grin
(I do know it is in Borneo)

I'm not sure that DGD1 would wear that frilly dress (she's 7), although DGD2 may covet it! DGD1 might like the jacket though.

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 09-May-16 15:26:51

I'd wear it. If DD would let me.