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Is “sexy” what you want to be in your mid-80’s?

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RosiesMaw2 Sat 14-Sept-24 11:43:01

My heart sank when I saw the headline “Dame Prue Leith sexed -up”
Dame Prue Leith has been “sexed up” to walk the runway in a latex dress for avant-garde eco-designers Vin + Omi
The Bake Off judge, 84, appeared in the duo’s 20th anniversary show, Moxie, in Kensington as part of London Fashion Week wearing a black latex dress with red stitching and matching evening gloves
Speaking before the show, Omi told The Telegraph: “You’re going to see Prue Leith like you’ve never seen her before, not in your wildest dreams.
“. Even her husband doesn’t know what she’s wearing, he’s going to be shocked but he’s going to love it. We’re gonna sex her up. “
He added that Dame Prue, a close friend of the pair, is “game for anything
Laying my cards on the table
1) I don’t think black latex is “sexy” - I think it looks tarty and that is NOT the same thing
2) black and scarlet are such an unimaginative and hackneyed combination if looking glamorous is the intention
3) with trainers?
4) I think Prue Leith has her own, colourful style. I love the big glasses, the bold necklaces and adventurous colours - she generally looks fantastic.
“Sexed up” is not her style and it depresses me that yet another man seems to equate looking sexy with looking attractive.
🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

hamster58 Mon 16-Sept-24 13:52:33

I guess everyone’s idea of sexy is different but Prue Leith is about fun-I think-going by her colourful glasses necklaces and clothes, so perhaps she just went along with it for that reason ie fun. The person writing about it is like many other ‘fashion’ people…a bit off the wall…

Mollygo Mon 16-Sept-24 14:09:45

IMO it’s the sexy or sexed up that is incorrect, unless your sexual fantasy is an older woman fastened into in black latex with read laces. In that case, go for it.
Who knows what designers’ preferences are?
A fun costume or outfit? Yes. Fun costumes can be as weird as you like and for anyone to wear.

grumppa Mon 16-Sept-24 14:12:47

Great photograph of Pierce Brosnan higher up the thread. He's getting to look more and more like me!

MissAdventure Mon 16-Sept-24 14:28:32

grin

Stillcrazy Mon 16-Sept-24 14:40:32

Not at all against leather / leather look clothing for 80+ years old but this looks like a badly fitting bin bag- not at all sexy to me!!

MissAdventure Mon 16-Sept-24 14:43:10

I don't think I've ever seen anything on the catwalk that's struck me as sexy.
Ridiculous, mostly, if they've got bits on show.

Allira Mon 16-Sept-24 14:44:01

grumppa

Great photograph of Pierce Brosnan higher up the thread. He's getting to look more and more like me!

The name's Bond, Grumppa Bond, 007½ at your service, Gransnetters!

We should be so lucky 😀

Norah Mon 16-Sept-24 14:49:49

Perhaps Halloween came early, this being a costume selection?

Lovely woman - probably laughed on her way to the Bank.

Danma Mon 16-Sept-24 14:51:44

Looks like something from a science fiction film

queenofsaanich69 Mon 16-Sept-24 15:43:12

I think she has a sense of humour ( you would need to to wear that lot)

MissAdventure Mon 16-Sept-24 15:45:07

Ah, well that's an important part of being sexy, I think.

Its what's in the brain that's sexy, not the clothes.

Allira Mon 16-Sept-24 15:50:00

Da Ya Think I'm Sexy?

Well, actually, now you're asking - No.

MissAdventure Mon 16-Sept-24 15:52:41

grin

MissAdventure Mon 16-Sept-24 15:53:40

I was watching the Rolling Stones yesterday, and pondering on Mick Jagger...

Allira Mon 16-Sept-24 16:15:08

MissAdventure

I was watching the Rolling Stones yesterday, and pondering on Mick Jagger...

I've never thought he was sexy, not in the slightest.
Skinny and unattractive (well, to me anyway).
In fact, none of the Rolling Stones were appealing.

Now, Paul Jones of Manfred Mann, yes.

grumppa Mon 16-Sept-24 16:18:53

On reflection, Pierce Brosnan at seventy looks more like me in my fifties. Of well, a man can dream...

Greciangirl Mon 16-Sept-24 17:50:45

Of course she won’t be wearing that sort of clothing on a regular basis.

She is obviously having a bit of fun .
And why not?

MissAdventure Mon 16-Sept-24 17:55:24

She's going to serve her new, sexed up self on a hostess trolley, on bake off, I'd imagine. smile

Stella14 Mon 16-Sept-24 19:02:57

Sexed-up in modern parlance doesn’t mean sexy, it means “made better” in aesthetics

Stella14 Mon 16-Sept-24 19:04:08

. . . .Or more interesting, more exciting. Remember the ‘sexed up documents on WMDs that took us into the Iraqi war?

David49 Mon 16-Sept-24 19:34:16

MissAdventure

I was watching the Rolling Stones yesterday, and pondering on Mick Jagger...

The Stones are still rolling but a pretty sad spectacle these days, as are many of the old Rockers, too many drugs and booze

MissAdventure Mon 16-Sept-24 19:42:59

Ah, well, you see, to my mind, Mick has still got "it".

He is old and craggy, and skinny, but he is still sexy. (If you like that sort of thing)

Meatloaf was the other extreme, but he was quite a heartthrob at one point.

eazybee Tue 17-Sept-24 07:44:57

Oh, I do agree about Piece Brosnan. Stunning!

M0nica Tue 17-Sept-24 19:38:28

David49

MissAdventure

I was watching the Rolling Stones yesterday, and pondering on Mick Jagger...

The Stones are still rolling but a pretty sad spectacle these days, as are many of the old Rockers, too many drugs and booze

Did you see in the papers that Marian Faithful has moved into a care home. She is in the one a theatrical charity run and is full of well known people.

My one claim to fame is that I went to school with her. My sister and I, and Marianne were all new boarders in the summer term of 1955. She was a pretty little girl with short straight blond hair and had big blue eyes, which she already knew how to use for effect.

MissAdventure Tue 17-Sept-24 19:47:45

I didn't know about Marianne, M0nica.

She has certainly got some memories, I'll bet!

I will go and have a look online.

Did you think she would always be "someone"?