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Where is Graham, the psychologist from JK Show

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Ohmother Sun 13-Mar-22 22:51:00

Watching the prog re Jeremy Kyle but there’s no mention of Graham?? I find that strange. Anyone else?

lemsip Sun 13-Mar-22 23:00:52

re; Graham Stanier It is believed that Graham is working as a consultant psychotherapist.
Throughout lockdown, Graham worked as an NHS volunteer responder donating 701 hours of his time.
Graham has remained in contact with Jeremy following the demise of The Jeremy Kyle Show.

I googled and copied and pasted this.

Ohmother Sun 13-Mar-22 23:05:49

Thank you for that Lemsip

welbeck Mon 14-Mar-22 01:17:36

well it was a pretty damning programme.
so i presume that the makers did not want to mention him, so as not to associate him with their criticisms.

Lucca Mon 14-Mar-22 02:41:08

What programme ? When ?

FannyCornforth Mon 14-Mar-22 03:29:34

Is it back on then?
I thought that it had been indefinitely shelved after the suicide of a participant.

And I also thought that there was a documentary about to be shown, about the abhorrent practices of the producers.
I will Google too…

FannyCornforth Mon 14-Mar-22 03:33:28

The documentary is called Death on Daytime (Ch4)
The first part was shown yesterday (13/03) and the second part is on this evening.

FannyCornforth Mon 14-Mar-22 03:34:18

Ah right. You were talking about the documentary.
I was confused.

BlueBelle Mon 14-Mar-22 05:34:11

Haven’t watch it as yet but I would imagine he’s trying to distance himself although surely he must hold a lot of blame as being the resident professional surely he should have been the one to change any bad practices
Surely he’s the main man to blame seems strange that he s not

FannyCornforth Mon 14-Mar-22 06:28:27

Yes. I would have thought that he’d be struck off, and unable to practice as a psychotherapist.
He’s even brought the profession into disrepute.
There must be some comeback?

Doodledog Mon 14-Mar-22 06:53:38

I’m not sure that psychotherapists are regulated though.

How can he distance himself from the documentary? I doubt Kyle wanted to be in it either, but the evidence and footage is there for all to see, so he couldn’t stop it. There is a second episode on tonight though - maybe Graham is in that.

I remember reading an article about the show years ago, which explained how the researchers whipped up the guests against one another before putting them on stage. They had no regard for the mental health of the people they claimed to help, or of how they would cope when they went back home, and neighbours had seen their ‘dirty washing’.

I really felt for the mother of the heroin addict. She had clearly acted out of desperation, and telling her that they were competing with other families for detox was so cruel.

FannyCornforth Mon 14-Mar-22 07:02:53

Doodledog you are quite correct regarding regulations and psychotherapy.
I have just had a short Google.

It is absolutely disgusting.
Speaking as someone who has had more than one extremely unsatisfactory experience with therapists; I find this scary and very wrong.

Doodledog Mon 14-Mar-22 07:14:14

Yes, qualified psychologists are unhappy with the situation too. There is a list of registered ones (who are qualified and regulated), but that doesn’t stop charlatans from calling themselves therapists.

JaneJudge Mon 14-Mar-22 07:15:03

It is weird that Graham isn't mentioned. I felt sorry for all of them, you could tell the people featured were vulnerable. My husband really didn't get the fact the people retelling the manipulation were actors though!

JaneJudge Mon 14-Mar-22 07:15:24

Doodledog

Yes, qualified psychologists are unhappy with the situation too. There is a list of registered ones (who are qualified and regulated), but that doesn’t stop charlatans from calling themselves therapists.

I have no idea about this ether

BlueBelle Mon 14-Mar-22 07:18:44

Phychologists and counsellors have to be registered with a body and rules and regulations within these organisations are strict and they can get struck off However anyone can set themselves up as a therapist so whether Graham is a bone fide physiologist or just calls himself one we don’t know sounds as if that may well be the case

Ohmother Mon 14-Mar-22 07:49:15

If he’s worked for the NHS as a psychologist he would have to be registered with a professional body. Once registered you should always work ethically. JK Show was no where near those standards. The body should have struck him off.

Doodledog Mon 14-Mar-22 07:50:50

Yes, as I said, there is a register of members of the professional body, but no regulation over who calls themselves a therapist.

MerylStreep Mon 14-Mar-22 08:00:54

It’s no wonder Jeramy Kyle went to court to get this program stopped. Vile person ?

Doodledog Mon 14-Mar-22 08:16:31

Did he? Good grief! He should have held his hands up, got down on his knees and and apologised, as he was fond of telling his guests to do.

He really does seem to be a dreadful specimen, but I have a nagging feeling that he is a scapegoat for a more general malaise. At the time of his show there were others too - Trisha springs to mind - and a lot of demonising of so-called ‘chavs’. JK was part of this phenomenon, and he was just the presenter - ITV more generally should probably be held to account, as should the viewers, who are complicit too, at least up to a point.

FannyCornforth Mon 14-Mar-22 08:18:55

When he worked as a volunteer for the NHS, I doubt that it was in the role of a psychotherapist.
Reports say that he was a ‘volunteer responder’

JaneJudge Mon 14-Mar-22 08:33:58

I can't remember Trisha being exploitative or Vannessa Feltz tbh. Jeremy Kyle seemed to want to be an English Jerry Springer?

I found an old article

www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/9076315/jeremy-kyle-lost-plot-trisha-goddard/

BlueBelle Mon 14-Mar-22 09:29:56

According to write ups Graham was a MHN when he first started out in life then did masters in psychology and counselling and then turned to tv work he probably isn’t affiliated to any particular service provider or else it would have said He’s done NHS work during CoviD but not sure in what capacity

Doodledog Mon 14-Mar-22 09:59:34

JaneJudge

I can't remember Trisha being exploitative or Vannessa Feltz tbh. Jeremy Kyle seemed to want to be an English Jerry Springer?

I found an old article

www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/9076315/jeremy-kyle-lost-plot-trisha-goddard/

That article is basically Trisha trying to distance herself from the whole debacle, though.

I think that any show that relies on disadvantaged people being televised in return for a DNA test or the chance of therapy is exploitative. I can't remember if Trisha offered DNA tests (I rarely watched either, but have seen both programmes), but encouraging people to talk about affairs, or drug addiction, or family problems and then go back to their home towns where they will be left to deal with gossip and ridicule is irresponsible.

The children of the 'guests' would suffer too, by always being known as 'the one whose mum is an alcoholic who had an affair with the drug-addicted neighbour', or whatever. To the show makers the guests may be interchangeable, but the consequences for them as individuals may well be lifelong.

I don't think any such shows are aired now, which is for the best (maybe the nearest is the 'hilarious' early auditions in talent shows), but they used to be commonplace, and tied to the toxic 'poke fun at so-called 'chavs' ' culture that went with them.

JaneJudge Mon 14-Mar-22 10:03:51

Yes, you are right Doodledog.