This is not a one off.
Some people are just grumpy/totally self centred and I have known men who want their wife to themselves whether or not they are also mother and grandmother.
There are people who do not share. I know. My father was one. My mother would plead with us (myself and DH) to not confront him since when we had gone he would make her pay until he was satisfied and only then would life go back to his 'normal' where he would be in full control. She would not leave him. This will not get better.
They are both long gone and DH wishes, to this day, that he had dealt with that man as he deserved.
SNP and Greens end coalition deal
Scottish political mess. Is Devolution working?