I am not sure I am obsessive about checking each morning, more a question of needing to know if ringing a doctor is necessary.
To be fair to my DH, he is not a stuffer or non-stop eater, He doesn't eat in the car, nor does he eat at his desk or snack on sweet things, except for mince pies in season. He get a good mixed diet at home. His problem is more portion control. Too much butter on bread, bowls of cereal, overfilled and high calorie brands. Probably only one snack between meals - and that is cheese - or fruit but the portions are large. It is like alcohol. He can go months without drinking, and rarely drinks when out, but he usually drinks half a bottle most evenings. I see all the bottles, so I know he has decided that 2 glasses of wine is enough and that is all he drinks. The alcohol consumption is not that high, but the calorie value is.. It is not a lack of control or addiction. When he is in the mood to cut back, he will and can. He looses a stone, then gets bored and starts eating moreI it is just a lack of willingness to address the issue
I know there is nothing I can do, DH knows how I feel about his weight and it is entirely up to him what he does. But when the emergency arrives I will be the one that has to deal with it, as i did when he had a heart attack and bypass surgery.