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What will happen if I do make contact?

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Purpletinofpaint Tue 11-Jun-19 19:31:42

After more than a decade estrangement? I am the estranger I should say, not the estrangee. What would you say if you received contact from your adult child?

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Urmstongran Mon 24-Jun-19 14:12:46

You are grieving for what you never had.
And now, as an adult, you are heartbroken on behalf of that little girl.

Please stay away. The relationship is toxic.

You have been hurt so much already. You will never get closure but you will, in time, learn to accept it because it wasn’t you to blame.
x

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gmelon Mon 24-Jun-19 14:58:31

Cruel, unloving, cold as ice women are just as capable of getting pregnant as any women are.
Accept that bad people have children.
Your parents are not fit to be Mother and Father.
Don't contact her. Her rage will still be there.

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