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Gransnet cafe

Welcome to the *Gransnet Café. This is a non-judgemental space for you to pop in for a cuppa with some virtual friends, seek out advice for a particular problem, or share an update on your life - important or trivial. Feel free to have your say and chat about your day, but please leave any arguments at the door. If you're struggling to find someone to talk to in real life, or are simply looking for a bit of a chat, this is the place for you.

New to Gransnet?

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 13-Sep-18 10:53:26

Any new joiners? smile If you've recently signed up to Gransnet or have been around a while but haven't got round to posting anything yet, please pop over to Welcome to Gransnet to introduce yourself and have a virtual cup of cafe or wine.

MissAdventure Mon 18-Feb-19 23:49:04

Hello wobbles.
Great name! smile

Wobbles Tue 19-Feb-19 09:21:26

Thank you smile

Freeatlast Wed 20-Feb-19 21:42:09

After being an avid snooper on gransnet,finally plucked up courage to join in. I am a 61years old proud grandma of 1 girl and 2 boys, and as my username shows I also plucked up the courage to divorce my serial adulterous husband after 43 years.

Smiley4 Wed 20-Feb-19 22:02:49

Welcome free at last. 43 years, that can’t have been easy. Many of us have been divorced. So whilst we haven’t stood in your shoes. We can empathise.
Some areas arrange get together, if that interests you, look under “meet-ups, where are you” forum.
Be strong.

Freeatlast Thu 21-Feb-19 15:20:15

Thank you Smiley4

Karens Sun 24-Feb-19 18:13:37

Hello. Just joined today. I’ve already got three gorgeous grandsons from my son and his partner but now my daughter is pregnant. It’s very early days (9 weeks) but I’m excited to be more involved this time. I was included in so much along with the other gran first time, quite a lot second time but I’ve felt left out third time and since. No ones fault, I’m not here to lay any blame. My daughter has asked me to make something - oh dear, what?? I’m not artistic, I can’t knit, I can’t sew. Any ideas or do I go to a different forum?

Charleygirl5 Sun 24-Feb-19 21:37:06

Welcome and yes, I suggest you go to a different forum if you want help.

Sorry but I am also totally useless so would be of little help to you.

SA57 Mon 25-Feb-19 19:21:26

Hello everyone, hope to join in with the lovely conversations, a little shy and unsure but hope to be able to navigate the site ok.

Charleygirl5 Mon 25-Feb-19 21:13:05

Welcome SA57. Try soop's kitchen if you want a site where you will always get help and never have your head bitten off.

PickledCarrots Mon 25-Feb-19 21:26:19

Hello, I’ve come over to gransnet from Mumsnet.
I’m the mum of a ten year old girl, but I’m 54. I’m not quite sure where I fit in ??.
Both groups perhaps.
Most of my contemporary are planning their retirement and looking forward to grandchildren.
But I have a new, younger bunch of friends ‘at the school gate’. Any thoughts about this being a good group for me. Or will you send me packing back to mumsnet?

Charleygirl5 Mon 25-Feb-19 21:35:39

Welcome PickledCarrots. If you want a reply it may be better to open your own thread on that subject. I personally do not believe in sending anybody packing- I think there is a slot for the majority of people. If you have come from Mumsnet you know how volatile it can become there and occasionally similar happens on certain threads here.

Susan56 Mon 25-Feb-19 21:47:35

Hello,I have only just seen this thread.I have been reading the forums for a couple of years,started posting on the good morning thread at the beginning of the year and have made one or two tentative comments on other threads.I have one granddaughter from my eldest daughter who is expecting another baby later in the year and a grandson from my youngest daughter.I look after GD two days a week and see GS as often as possible but as they live a couple of hours away is usually every few weeks.

Wobbles Mon 25-Feb-19 21:58:56

Welcome PickledCarrots I dabble in both MN & GN. Love the name btw

Missmolly43 Tue 26-Feb-19 00:31:59

Hello, just joined today, but been a lurker for some time.
I am nana to eight beautiful grandchildren, ranging in age from one to twenty one.
Divorced and happy, with lovely family and friends. Feel lucky.

Specs Thu 28-Feb-19 06:47:47

Hi, Found and joined Gransnet about a month ago via Mumsnet. Suits me perfectly. Love listening to other people’s experiences. Think I’ll be using GN more when the weather’s bad. This last week has been fantastic so my iPad has stayed shut.

Thank to the organisers and the many lovely contributors whose posts I have learnt so much from. ??

Charleygirl5 Thu 28-Feb-19 10:23:34

Welcome Specs- a few do shuffle over from Mumsnet but not all stay!

Neti Fri 01-Mar-19 13:37:59

Hi all.

I've been a member for a month or so and having just moved home I use GN as a substitute coffee gathering!

I live on my own but have a wonderful 20 month old Lab/retriever named Martin who's training to be my assistance dog. I also have two grown sons,but no GC on the horizon just yet.

Nannac2b Fri 01-Mar-19 17:40:46

Hi all, I'm here after searching for menopause advice and thought as my daughter is expecting my first grandchild in August, it would be good to have some like-minded pals to turn to. I'm in West Yorkshire ?

NannyHill Sat 02-Mar-19 20:45:25

I’m new to gransnet joined a few weeks ago. Have been reading the forums, found them very interesting but haven’t posted anything yet. Would love to join in but not used to airing my views to everyone. Anyone got any tips.

Charleygirl5 Sat 02-Mar-19 21:53:48

Welcome NannyHill. It is difficult diving in but if you start off with soop's kitchen and maybe get to know the people who use that you will get to "know" them. It is a very gentle thread and everybody is civil to each other but many are really quite ill at present.

Granbythesea Sun 03-Mar-19 07:53:42

Good morning, I’m preparing myself for an imminent new grandchild being given a very unusual name. I’m sure many grandparents have been blown away by a previously unheard of name when their new GC is born. Tips please on how not to react in front of the firing parents??

Granbythesea Sun 03-Mar-19 07:55:10

Last post should read doting new parents.

Charleygirl5 Mon 04-Mar-19 10:19:43

Granbythe sea you are more likely to get a reply if you open a separate thread. Welcome by the way.

Cassiemax Tue 05-Mar-19 07:24:07

Good morning, I have been following GN for the last 5 years but this is my first post! I have recently retired so now have lots of me time. I'm looking forward to getting to know you all a little better as I have always enjoyed reading your posts and comments.

Marydoll Tue 05-Mar-19 07:57:17

Welcome Cassiemax! Why don't you introduce yourself on the Good morning thread. The posters aare all friendly and welcoming.